Re: visits to IVF infantile women: anxiety and hardship of seeking children
director Wen Ji of the center for reproductive medicine at the two Affiliated Hospital of Shandong University of Traditional Chinese Medicine for patients implanted
doctor to monitor embryo growth with embryonic dynamic observation system Development
her: a lifetime can't be said the secret
6 year old daughter is the fact of the test tube baby, she never told the stranger that
among the women who tried the test tube baby, Sun Qing was one of the lucky ones, and she had only been a test tube baby, and she was pregnant successfully. Now her daughter is 6 years old, healthy and smart, and the normal children, but Sun Qing said the fact that her daughter is a test tube baby, will become a child's eternal secret.
after experiencing pain and suffering like Chen Mei's test tube cycle, the final embryo was successfully implanted into the uterus of sun Qing. Sun Qing said that it was the most difficult period for her, because she was afraid that the implanted embryos would not be able to conceive normally. "At that time, I always dreamed that I would wake up excitedly when I was successful," I dreamed that I would not be in love with me for second days. According to the doctor's advice, it is possible to detect pregnancy if the embryo is implanted for half a month. But on the twelfth day, Sun Qing could not wait to detect it. When the news of pregnancy was successful, the couple quickly shared joy with their families, but could not tell them that it was a test tube baby. "Then I went to the hospital for blood test and I really got pregnant, and I could hear the fetal heart. At that time, listening to the child's fetal heart, I had the feeling of being a mother for the first time, and I could not forget that feeling for the rest of my life. However, successful pregnancy is only the first step. Then Sun Qing would have to accept a lot of test. Because it is not natural pregnancy, estrogen in the body has not increased accordingly, so sun Qing must be injected with progesterone for 3 months. "2 needles are injected every day. Even so, my fetal image has been unstable, bleeding from time to time, which often makes me feel scared. "
injections of progesterone made her body weight rise straight, and at that time she was so fat that she could not find blood vessels even with needles. Without considering himself, Sun Qing's mind was placed in the abdomen. She could not wait to do B-ultrasound every month, and every pregnancy test item was down. "The child is still preterm and weighed 5 pounds at that time."
"this kid is hard won, so we never asked her from her birth as long as she was happy and healthy. We are not going to tell the child about this experience and do not want to give her too much pressure. Maybe one day, when people can see normal test tube babies, I will tell them all about it and tell her that she has had this magical experience. In fact, the test tube baby is like a normal child. Sun Qing said.
her: the only son died of
"if there was a child again, he must tell him to protect himself"
in many older women, the test tube baby became their last "lifesaving straw". Missing mother is a special existence of old mothers. Such a female seeking child often appears in the outpatient clinic of Sheng Yan. Whenever such a patient is encountered, the inquiry of Sheng Yan will become more cautious, for fear that they will reveal their scars again. On the day of
15, Sheng Yan met two missing mothers. A lost mother said her son died two months ago in a car accident. Last December, when she said she wanted to let go of her two child, she and her husband planned to have two children. I didn't expect to get pregnant again, but the eldest died first. She and her husband had been pregnant for almost a year before they came to the hospital.
another lost mother said her son was drowned last year when he saved lives. After the death of the child, the couple planned to have another child, but they could not do it for more than a year, so they had to see the doctor. "If there is a child again, I must tell him that my mother wants only my son to be safe and secure, not to ask for his moral character, and not to ask him to help him." The mother said to the doctor.
fortunately, these two missing mothers are less than 40 years old, and are able to accept IVF after evaluation, and the success rate is greater. "There are many other mothers who have lost their own age, 40 years old, and even 50 years old. The ovarian function has fallen and even no ovulating, the chances of successful test tube babies are very small, and we have nothing to do.
many ovarian failure women with advanced ovarian failure also want to test tube babies by feeding eggs. They feel that although they are not their own eggs, they can at least realize their dream of becoming mothers again. However, this kind of egg laying test tube baby is more likely to happen. Because the egg supply is different from the sperm donation, not who wants to give the egg can be donated, only the women who do the test tube can provide eggs, any form of commercialized egg donation and egg supply are prohibited, which leads to the extremely limited amount of egg supply and the waiting time will be very long.