After spending two children, it costs 200 thousand yuan a year. Ji'nan citizens call it "no".
two - child policy will undoubtedly play a leading role in the consumption of mother and child, but behind the market consumption, more than 60% people say "pressure mountain". Recently, the China Youth Daily Social Survey Center released data show that 63.7% of respondents believe that the pressure of marriage and childbirth is very great. A Ji'nan citizen told a newspaper reporter that if he had two children, he would spend 200 thousand yuan a year.
Data women think that 28 year old married men expect 30 years old
in the survey of the social survey center of the China Youth Daily, 2005 respondents were involved in the questionnaire survey. Among them, 65.8% of respondents believe that 26-29 is the prime time to get married and have children, 38.1% of them choose 26-27 years old, and 27.7% of respondents choose 28-29 years old. Ms. Su, a resident of Ji'nan, worked in a hospital in Jiangsu Province. Although she had just graduated for less than two years, she felt the urgency of marriage.
"although the best age for women is between 23 and 30 years of age, from a medical point of view, production between 23 and 28 years old is the least for the healthy development of children and their own impact." Ms. Su said that she is 26 years old and has no boyfriend at the moment. If there is a right man right now, two people talk about a year of love, then marry, and then get pregnant for half a year, and the child can be born at the best age of medicine. "This is in all the smooth circumstances, but a long time to see the people, if the Association for a period of time to find inappropriate, and then to find other objects to develop, soon will miss the golden age of children." She told reporters that even if the first child is successfully produced during the golden period, the delay in the second child will have a certain effect on pregnant women. "Not only is it bad for our postnatal recovery, but also the risk of children's unhealthy condition will increase."
the reporter found that in addition to Ms. Su, who has a professional medical knowledge, many Ji'nan women who are married and married are not worried about these problems, and the age of marriage and childbirth is later than women. Most women in the interview think that 28 years old marriage is a suitable age, while men think that they are more suitable to be married when they are 30 years old.
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one child no longer wants two children
according to the survey data from the Chinese Youth Daily, 63.7% of the respondents believed that the pressure of marriage was very high. After the two child policy was released, the development of the mother infant market undoubtedly played a leading role, but it also brought about a problem -- the pressure of marriage and childbirth among young people.
Ms. Zhang, a citizen of Ji'nan, told reporters that when she was in love with her husband, she imagined that she could have two children in the future, but the idea of a two - child since the first child was born last year. "I didn't have children, I didn't know the hardship and pressure. Now, my girl spends nearly ten thousand yuan a month. If I have another two children, I can barely afford it. She gave the reporter a pen account, the cost of a nanny of 3 thousand yuan a month, just for children to sign up for the morning class 20 thousand yuan, about 1 thousand yuan per month, plus food, use, play, ten thousand yuan is not enough. Ms. Liu, a citizen, recently bought a 1 year old child to buy a mat, clothes, and urine, which cost more than 1 thousand yuan. "Every time you enter the mother and baby supermarket, the money is not less than 1 thousand yuan, and my month's salary is all spent on the child." She said, a pair of baby shoes will be two or three hundred yuan, not long enough to wear small, then buy new.
"in fact, some baby products on the Internet are not expensive, but they dare not buy them. Children who use certain chemicals will affect their development. So powdered milk can only be trusted to buy from abroad, playing with the mother to child supermarket, although the price is more expensive, but it is safe to use. Ms. Zhang, the citizen, has calculated an account of her own. If the two child has to be a nanny, "the cost of the 24 hour nanny is about four thousand or five thousand yuan a month. The four adults of our family add two children, and the cost of the light eats is three thousand or four thousand yuan, and the children's early education class and clothes must be added, about 200 thousand yuan a year." "
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the cost of raising children between parents,
many parents who have already given birth tell the reporter that the two child is not unwanted, but not to be able to afford it. "Our generation after 80 is the only child, so we hope that the children will have a brother and sister." But the problem now is that if the child needs to have some economic strength, he will not think of it without such strength.
Mr. Lou's wife Sun said: "as long as we are born, there is no way to raise it, that is to raise the poor." But who does not want to give the best to the child? Seeing the children wear is a big brand, you will want to give your own children to buy such a child on the children's early education training, I am afraid of their own children fall. It's much more expensive than raising children. "
two level mental counselor of the state and the columnist of the metropolis women's newspaper, according to Fei Fei, is not only to increase the economic burden of the family, but also to transplant this kind of psychology to the children in the future, which is not conducive to the psychological development of the children. "For other people's children, this traditional psychological comparison is no stranger to us, so that our children's happiness in life is fixed in comparison. In fact, there is no need to compare with the surrounding people about the child's upbringing. To give children the most expensive than to give children, not only to reduce the pressure on the family economy, but also to allow children to grow in a relaxed reservation environment, more conducive to their healthy personality.