What's the "full two child" brush screen DINK people think
Shun Net - City Women's
DINK is not a new word, but the recent word has been pulled out to discuss, the reason is the full two children on the screen. . When a group of people are debating whether or not to produce two treasures, this group of people who do not want to have more pressure is more stressed. According to the survey, Ding Ke and his wife are fighting themselves at any time, apart from social and family pressures, and only 19% of them do not regret. What do DINK women think about when the two children are raging?
what the DINK people think about
zero point survey has come to the conclusion that the selection of DINK families has 3 distinct features: younger, higher education and higher income. Among the respondents aged 18 and.Amp, mdash34 accounted for 10.4% of the DINK families, which was significantly higher than that of 35 year old.Amp; the same choice was observed among the respondents aged mdash54. Among people with different academic qualifications, the proportion of college students or above in choosing DINK families is the highest, reaching 10.3%. The higher the income, the higher the proportion of households choosing DINK. The proportion of respondents whose family average monthly income was above 5000 yuan reached 13.7%, while only 5.5% of those below 1500 yuan. According to the age, the 80s generation chose Ding Ke's main force.
What are the DINK people thinking about in the context of the two children?
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in 1980 with the entanglement given to her in that age: 70 after the conservative, and after 80's self. Recently I just read the Guan Jun's "behind the back", so, you ask me this question, I am with the inner and external fear, in serious thinking of the topic that we take for granted.
Ding Wen said that as a DINK, she would avoid this topic before, so as to avoid being criticized. Now, however, she feels that there is nothing left: DINK is not only damp, not new, and outdated, but there are still many obstacles to its operation.
the greatest resistance comes from the outside world, especially the labels attached to others: the people who do not have children are often considered to be self centered, in Ji'nan with family ideas and intimate relationships, and that children are not often equated with selfishness, and are considered to be greedy for pleasure and only to pursue themselves.
, however, even if the two children have a heated discussion, Ding Wen will stick to his choice. Even if there is a label, even if there is public opinion, it will not waver.
34 year old employees
compared to Wen's entanglement, Wang Qiyu's attitude to DINK is more distinct: I will make the best plan for my life, which is irrelevant to others.
both Wang Qiyu and her husband have a steady job, and their DINK is a firm.Amp; mdash.amp; mdash does not feel the lack of a child. Wang Qiyu said that she used three principles to deal with other people's strange eyes: This is not your business, nor is it my business. I don't care.
Wang Qiyu said that the choice of DINK is precondition: first, the economic foundation is strong, and the two is strong gas field so that people can shut up. Wang Qiyu said that her parents had been used to giving up her life, and her husband in law was facing her husband.
there's a face-to-face confrontation, too. In a family trip, the grandfather said that the trip was good and grandchildren were better. Wang Qiyu is not polite: Yes, you are not here. We are not free to bring you out. Where do you want to go? Who is the old money left for? How much money you have, and I help you to spend it.
since then, even now the topic of second child is so hot, my parents in front of Wang Qiyu have not said much.
Ding Ke has no other Ding Ke thought
survey shows that women want to be Ding Ke more than men: 54% of women, only 26% of men. In addition to being afraid of being selfish and pleasing, the DINK members also have their own adherence to the journalist's investigation, especially the female ethnic group. They say, like choosing one or two, not being born is also a choice of reproductive rights.
the proportion of DINK people standing in the crowd is still very small. What people want to do is not to demonize this group. Zhao Limei, a two grade national psychological consultant, said that this is just a choice of childbearing.
professor Liu Wei, Professor of sociology at the school of philosophy and society at the Jilin University, expressed the same view: in the face of the DINK, you can disapprove of their practice, but should respect, understand and tolerate their choices. As a young person, it is no harm to be a DINK family on the premise that the family allows the husband and wife to reach a consensus, but do not produce DINK thinking. The so-called.Amp; lsquo DINK thinking.Amp; rsquo is to fear the trouble, fear of taking responsibility to escape the obligation, this self - centered, selfish attitude is not advisable.