Ji'nan alone two children to witness the number is far lower than the expected pressure is the main reason.
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source: Qilu Evening News
two children opened for more than a month, as of the end of June, Ji'nan has handled 722 separate two child birth certificates, which is far below the expectation of the relevant heads of the Municipal Population Planning Commission. It is understood that in the survey of fertility wish made by the Municipal Population and Family Planning Commission, about 70% of the citizens expressed willingness to give birth to two children. But when it comes to the two choices of "two children" or "no two children", many people who choose to "live" have changed their minds.
reporter survey found that the financial burden of two children to the ordinary working families, the late marriage led to the growth of the parents' body and the two children, and take into account the professional needs, which have become the reasons for many citizens who do not want to have two children.
is too expensive!
it takes 270 thousand
from birth to college "two children". "I dreamt that I was pregnant the other day, or a pair of boys, in my dream I felt that the days were impossible." In most people's eyes, it is a happy thing to have twins, but it seems to be a nightmare at the age of 1.
Ms. Liu thinks so, mainly because the cost of raising children is too high. The monthly income of Liu and her husband is about 8000 yuan, which is slightly higher than that of Ji'nan's social average wage of 3873 yuan per person per month in 2013. Even so, after she had children, she always felt that money was not enough, and she even had some support from her parents.
"now, our monthly housing loans have to be more than 2600 yuan, each month to buy clothes, toys for children, the average cost of three hundred or four hundred, to buy milk powder to seven hundred or eight hundred, an import prevention needle, 700 yuan no, plus early education class tuition, diaper money..." Ms. Liu calculated that the rest of the money was spent on the child in addition to the normal cost of the month. "After the baby was born, we didn't save a little money." Give the children Yuesao's 8000 yuan or their parents.
"if you regenerate a boy, you have to prepare a house. That's a lifetime." Even if we have a girl, we can't afford to spend our daily life. " "Someone advised me," Ms. Liu said. "But I think that since I have children, I have to provide him with the best diet, education, medical care, and so on. If the quality of parenting is reduced to two children, I would rather not be born." A website of
a provincial capital has calculated the two child growth bill of the mother of Ji'nan. For example, for ordinary working family consumption, from infants and young children to college, ideally, second children spend more than 270 thousand yuan, and the actual spending is far more amazing than the numbers.
> too tired!
the mother did not relax before
according to the survey on the above web site, in addition to economic factors, the family has no small child care for two children.
when the reporter got in touch with Ms. Lin, she had just quarreled with her husband. "It was because of the two births, and he had to regenerate one. I do not agree." Ms. Lin's son is 4 years old this year. "I feel liberated, and I can't be reborn."
Ms. Lin is a nurse in a hospital. She works very hard and often works on night shift. "It feels good when the child is very young, but since I finish off my maternity leave to work, the child begins to add food and goes to the children's kindergarten. I haven't had a day of easy day."
"the child usually looks at my grandparents, but my son is very sticky to me. As long as I am at home, I must feed me, and I want to sleep in the evening. He is not very good at sleep. He wakes up and I have to accompany it. Sometimes I work night shifts, and I have to play with my children during the day. " When she talked about children, Ms. Lin's biggest feeling was tired. "Until last year, my son went to kindergarten, dinner was able to take care of himself and sleep at night, and I was just a normal day."
in addition, affected by the idea of late marriage and late childbearing, many "after 70", "after 80" people are about 30 years old to have children, and their parents have begun to walk down the road. "It takes at least three years to bring a child, and these three years are really hard." Ms. Lin said that her father in law was not well enough to see that a child was very tired. She was worried that the two children would be tired of the old man.