Ji'nan's 50 year old mother who lost her mother wants to reproduce again: try a test tube baby.
after the son left, Xie Li often stays Sitting in his son's room, watching his son's photos silently weeping
now, the nearly 50 of her mother is racing with time and pain, and a child is the biggest bet of Sherry's life,
Qilu Ji'nan 6 The 16 day of June 14th (reporter Zhang Shuai Yu Peng) early in June 14th, Xie Li and his wife early out of the door, today for them is an not too ordinary day, the lost family is eager to have second children. Hospital of Shandong Red Cross Society decided to provide them with free regenerative services.
bet: for the rebirth of the life of
since the death of the 2012 son, Xie Li rarely went out, perhaps the hospital promised to help give her a glimmer of hope, and the reporter saw Shelie much better than before.
"had never been to the Red Cross hospital before, but the idea of one again was all the time," the reporter learned that after the death of her son, Xie Li's physical condition was also a problem, "hyperthyroidism, heart is not good", faced with the doctor's inquiry, Xie Li appears to be a little nervous.
"I want to ask, if it is possible to give birth, it can guarantee the health of the child." when the doctor said Xie Li still had the possibility of reproduction, his husband, Gao Tao, was anxious to ask the doctor. His son's high illness left his father with too much pain, and he could not bear any other accident.
in the afternoon, in the Hospital of Shandong Red Cross Society arrangement, the doctor for Xie Li to check the ovarian function, female endocrinology six items and do B ultrasound, because of Xie Li's own gynecologic disease is more serious, the day the doctor did not do the fallopian tube injury sex examination for her.
"comprehensive evaluation results, the indicators of fertility are relatively low", Hospital of Shandong Red Cross Society infertility diagnosis and treatment expert Pan Huizhen told reporters that the female general ovulating time is 30 years, "now the egg reserve time is not too long, then the fertility of the ability in 10%~20% bar", Xie Li's situation and Not very optimistic.
"it's not very suitable for natural pregnancy at the present age. If the time of medication is too long and may not be well adjusted, women are already menopause." in Pan Huizhen's view, this is a very urgent task. "If the test tube can also shorten the time, it will be two or three months to be smooth," the doctor's proposal makes Xie Li's husband and wife bright. Now the problem is that Xie Li's body needs further regulation.
"we want to see through the media's help to see if we can use the tube." the day after the inspection, Sherry's husband, Gao Yintao, called the Qilu network reporter. And for nearly 50 of Xie Li, every day is precious. They know that this will be a journey of rebirth with time.
"may not succeed, but it must not be missed."
many families have given up in the face of pressure, and doctors are reminded not to drag
in fact, since the report on the lost family from the Qilu network, the people who have lost their independence have been calling to say that they want to have another child, but the road is bound to be full of obstacles.
, who lives in Rizhao, told reporters that after losing the only child, the two couples spent a lot of time trying to realize their dream of re birth. Take medicine, conditioning, two test tube babies have failed in the end, the cost of tens of thousands of husband and wife husband and wife no longer dare to say.
48, was faced with the same dilemma. After her son left in 2003, she had been pregnant for 3 times in a few years, but eventually failed to fall into it, which made her almost lost in confidence.
"we sometimes think, on the one hand, the cost of reproduction itself is too high. On the other hand, how can we raise the child again, 50 years old, and wait until the child is 20 years old, and if we have an accident in this period?" Win and lose in many people's view and disproportionate.
in order to help those who wish to reproduce and face difficulties, the Qilu network, the Qilu channel, the Shandong business daily and the public welfare partner of Hospital of Shandong Red Cross Society, CO sponsored the charity activities of caring for the lost mother, hoping to use our humble effort to bring about the rebirth of these families. Some hope.
ever since Qilu has published a series of reports on the lost family, a single mother who wants to reproduce is calling the editorial department to say that he wants to reproduce, but when a reporter invites them to the hospital, many families are hesitant. "
" in fact, like losing the family has the idea of reproduction must take time to put into practice, "Pan Huizhen told the Qilu network reporter, because the loss of independence most faced with the problem of age, so the best time may be fleeting.
she cautioned that, in life, parents, especially mothers, must work hard to get themselves out of the shadow of the mind, which is especially important for couples who want to reproduce. "The communication and comfort of two couples is very important, which is of great help to psychological and physical recovery," Pan Huizhen said.