Shandong commercial newspaper reporter Zhang Yuyong
Wu Xingmei took care of the deaf mute uncle born in 1963, Wu Xingmei's house in the Huaiyin District, the river head Wang Village, Wu Xingmei and husband marriage Later, she began to take care of her husband's uncle, who was deaf and dumb. Wu Xingmei never cooked up his uncle's cooking and received his uncle's care from his own home. Wu Xingmei not only took care of his uncle's diet, but also took medicine for his uncle to see a doctor. In Wu Xingmei's words, uncle is also a father. He is all elders and takes good care of them.
whether uncle or dad, the elders
Wu Xingmei's uncle Li Guitian is a deaf mute and a single man. When Wu Xingmei married to her husband's home, the couple lived together with the father-in-law, and the uncle's family was very close to their family. Wu Xingmei did not take care of his family's life, but also made a meal for his uncle as his father and uncle. Wu Xingmei always said, "no matter uncle or dad, they are their elders. I have to be filial to them as a younger generation."
in 2010, Li Guitian was gradually unable to take care of himself because he was getting older. In order to take care of the elderly, Wu Xingmei consulted with his family to get his uncle to live together. But after hearing the proposal, the family asked questions, and the aunt said, "he is a male elder, and a deaf mute. Can you take care of him?" But Wu Xingmei had the character of not to concede defeat. She set up a military order at that time: "I have been with my uncle for years, and I have some tacit understanding." Wu Xingmei said, "let your aunt rest assured that she will take care of her uncle when she takes care of her uncle."
to take care of his family and ask for medicine for his uncle
Wu Xingmei's husband is suffering from diabetes. When he is seriously ill, he needs to be hospitalized. The pressure of life is all on Wu Xingmei. In order to cure her husband, she started a business of oil pie stall, and got up every day before dawn. The burden on Wu Xingmei was heavier after he received his uncle's home. But even if the work of the day is tired, Wu Xingmei will prepare meals for his uncle and care for his uncle's daily life.
because the place where he used to live was somewhat damp, Li Guitian had skin diseases on his legs, and his skin was rash, itching and scratching the skin. In order to cure his uncle, Wu Xingmei went to many hospitals and inquired about all kinds of methods.
"I just did what I should do"
Wu Xingmei's husband died in 2015. She laid down her business, found a job in the village property, so that she could go home and take care of the old people at any time. As the old man grew older and couldn't get out of bed, Wu Xingmei washed his face, turned over, changed clothes, scrubbed his body, and helped the old man go to the bed. At the end of the day, the wrist was trembling. With Wu Xingmei as an example, her two daughters are all very filial and sensible, and can be considerate of their mother's difficulties. After work, she often helps his mother to take care of his uncle and father, not afraid of being tired and dirty.
La Shan Street has handled five guarantees for Li Guitian, and can receive more than 2000 yuan subsidy every year to help this loving family.
when others praise her, she always smiles and says, "filial piety is something everyone should do. I just did what I should do."