Shandong business daily
someone said she was suffering, in 2004, the former husband died, left out debt, the young son and the elderly need to take care of; some people said she was lucky Fu met her current husband, Zhang Chuanshan, who had been married for 14 years. More people said that she was good and had the responsibility to take care of her husband, Tian Xingyou, the former husband who was paralyzed in bed with her current husband. He took care of it for 9 years.
Lu Yuehong and Mrs. Lu Yuehong are feeding the rice in the bed to feed the rice
she is the 47 year old peasant female road in the village of Mashan, Changqing district.
the ex husband asked him to take care of the children and the elderly when he died. He had to keep up the whole family. After Tian Xingyou was paralyzed in bed in 2009, she and Zhang Chuanshan took the initiative to take the responsibility of taking care of Tian Xingyou. They had a clear division of labor. Lu Yue Yue was responsible for feeding and washing clothes. Zhang Chuanshan took a bath and turned over to him. In order to take better care of him, the two husband and wife moved together with him for easy time. Trainee reporter Zhang Yuyong
her husband has just died. She often hides herself in the quilt, crying
in the early May 2004, the happy husband died, leaving twenty thousand yuan of foreign debt and underage son and old old man.
Lu Yue Hong's husband has been ill since 1998. One disease is 7 years. Lu Yue Hong relies on farming and doing odd jobs to earn money to support her family and treat her husband. "At that time, life was hard, but the family was complete." Lu Yuehong said. When the husband died just now, Lu Yue Hong felt that the sky was falling down. "Twenty thousand yuan fourteen years ago is not a decimal. More than 20000 of the foreign debt, the family was poor and did not know when to repay foreign debts. Lu Yue Hong often sleepless in the evening. When he feels unable to go down, he will cry alone in his quilt.
"she is not easy to be alone, but also for children to go to school." Ms. Zhang, a pleasant neighbor of the road, told reporters.
looking at the underage son, Lu Yue red bite teeth, "it is difficult to go down." She went to work in the construction site with her neighbors in the village, earning money for her son to go to school, and also owed her husband's debts before he died. "Looking at my son, I have motivation. I always advise myself to go through it." Lu Yuehong said.
during the work of the construction site, the present husband, Zhang Chuanshan, was recognized by Lu Yue Hong. "He is recognized as the honest man, and we are also very happy to meet each other." Lu Yuet Hong told his own situation to Zhang Chuanshan. Zhang Chuanshan then decided that if he got married, he would stay with Lu Yue Hong later. "At that time, he was alone in his house, and there was no house in his house. He just came over to live together so that the child could accept it." In this way, Lu Yue Hong and Zhang Chuanshan came together.
after marriage, Zhang moved to Lu Yuehong's village and followed Lu Yuhong to take care of his school son and married for 14 years. Lu Yuehong told reporters.
the husband of the dead husband accidentally paralyzed
she worked with her current husband to take care of
in 2009, and the former husband's brother, Tian Xingyou, was unfortunate to be paralyzed in bed. At that time, Tian Xing's father was still alive, and he could take care of him. "There was someone standing by him at the time. We went to work and went to see him and cook some food. In the year when Tian Xing Yu's father died, the burden of taking care of Tian Xingyou fell completely on the road red and red couples. Lu Yue red couples discuss how to divide the work to take care of Tian Xingyou, "I am responsible for cooking and feeding, and I am responsible for turning over his body, bathing and other physical work." Lu Yuehong said.
three meals for Tian Xing friends every day is the most basic thing. "Besides breakfast is easy to digest food, the rest is what he wants to do." Lu Yuehong said. Tian Xingyou was paralyzed in bed, muscle began to shrink, eating can not take care of himself, three meals a day needs to be fed, "feed him, at least also need half an hour, three meals a day." Lu Yuehong said. Breakfast and dinner are easy to say. At noon, Lu Yue Hong needs to come back from the unit to do it specially. "Every day is very stressful. When I get off work, I'll hurry back and finish cooking. After feeding him, I'll hurry back to work."
later, in order to take better care of Tian Xingyou, Lu Yue hung moved to Tian Xingyou's home to live with him. "Everyone in the village boasted that their couple had taken good care of them. They had not had a bedsore for so many years." The director of the women's village of Zhongyi he told the reporter.
help Tian Xing Friends to turn over, wash their bodies, change sheets and wash clothes, which is what Zhang Chuanshan needs to do everyday. When the weather is hot, you have to scrub the body several times a day for Tian Xing you. "When it's hot, he is worried that he will be uncomfortable, scrubbing the body to give him a cool oil, or spray a bit of water, worry about mosquitoes." Lu Yuehong said.
Tian Xing you have an old fault is the bad intestines and stomach, Lu Yue Yu Hong and the red husband and wife always keep the medicine in Tian Xing you pillow, "when he is not comfortable, we will say to both of us to buy medicine for him." Tian Xingyou is paralyzed in the bed, the year can not leave the medicine, Lu Yue Yue red every month will leave a small portion of the money to Tian Xing you to buy medicine, when the money is not enough, they borrow money from the neighbourhood, and next month, they have income, and pay close attention to the money.
"so many years ago, neighbors, relatives and friends did not help me so much. They remember me well." Lu Yuehong said.
"I'm not expecting to live so long"
Tian Xing you live in a room with a sunrise. His bed is beside the window, the room is clean and tidy, and the dust can not be seen. The smell of Chinese herbal medicine mixed with the flavor of essential oils, and Taki Yu chatted happily with others around the bed. "I have a good standard of living now, with meat and vegetables, and eggs every day."
Tian Xing you said that for many years, thanks to Lu Yuehong and his wife to take care of themselves, so many years, Zhang Chuanshan has already regarded Zhang Chuanshan as his own family, as his brother, "they are not easy to make money, and take care of me, I have been tied." Tian Xingyou said. "After all these years, I have taken good care of me and kept my house clean."
the gap between chat, Tian Xing you also showed his radio and TV to reporters. "They were afraid that I could not speak at home, so they bought me a radio and TV, and now I could turn on the radio myself." Tian Xingyou said. Living conditions are better. Lu Yue Hong couple also installed air conditioning and radiator on Tian Xing you. "I am very content now. I have a good life every day. I am in a good mood. My neighbors often visit me." Tian Xingyou said.
Tian Xing you just paralyzed, the mood is very bad, from time to time a little moods, the road to the red couple after dinner will accompany him chat and talk, persuades him. "You have to be good, you are here, the children will feel a home, we will not care about you." Lu Yue red persuaded Tian Xingyou. "He may also worry that we no longer care for him. We often broaden his mind." Lu Yuehong said.
to take care of his own, Tian Xing you always say that his life is good, a person who does not have a blood relationship with himself to take care of himself, Tian Xing's heart is full of gratitude. "I really didn't think I could live so long, thanks to them." Tian Xingyou kept repeating his lips. "Thanks to them..."