Shandong business daily
"it's always my wish to build an old apartment, and I like to be with the old boy." Wang Xia, 39, is a single mother and lives alone with two daughters. By the end of 2016, Wang Xia had sold his only house to go to the apartment for the elderly. The nursing home was built by brick and tile by Wang Xia, and the rent was made by the staff of the nursing home. After more than a year, Wang Xia, a nursing home in Huaiyin District, Ji'nan, is finally on the right track. Nearly 20 elderly people were admitted to the nursing home. The two daughters followed Wang Xia in their spare time to take care of the elderly in the nursing home and help their mothers move forward step by step. Zhang Yuyong,
in a nursing home Wang Xiazheng feed the old people
sell the house and take the child to live in the old age
39 years of age Wang Xia, who lives alone with two daughters. Two daughters are 7 years old and one is 15 years old. When she first saw Wang Xia, she was very casual and casual. Speaking of the old apartment, Wang Xia said she felt a century of sweet and sour, too much to say, too many feelings, but a stumbling walk, she said she remembered not pain and bitterness, but every warmth and every word of encouragement. She said that the support and recognition of the elderly and their families were the driving force for her to move forward. "When I was young, I lived with my grandparents in the countryside, and I always liked being with the old people and children. I always had the idea of building an apartment for the elderly." Wang Xia said. After the divorce, although it is very bitter, but has not forgotten the initial intention of creating an apartment for the elderly, the children are very supportive of her. By chance, she told her old classmate Meng Qinghua the idea of running a nursing home. The two of them happened to agree to start building an apartment for the elderly. "After the divorce, I got a house of about 60 square meters, and sold it after the end of 2016, and started looking for a place to build an apartment for the elderly." Wang Xia said. In order to find the right place to build the old apartment, Wang Xia conducted a survey of various regions in Ji'nan, and in addition to his actual situation, Wang Xia placed the location of the old apartment in the Ji'nan Huaiyin District. Wang Xia said that in the city, it is close to the place where the children go to school, and they can take care of the old people wholeheartedly, and then the urban traffic is convenient, and the children of the old man can come to visit at any time. "The average age of the elderly who come to us is over 85 years old, and their children are more than 50 years old. If they are in the suburbs, they will be very inconvenient." Wang Xia said. "There are many people in the urban area, and the elderly feel that they have not left the old life circle, but also allow the elderly to quickly integrate into the new environment as their own home." "
" crying when the quilt can't let the children see "
select the old apartment address, Wang Xia began to decorate one side of the elderly apartment related proof, Wang Xia said she was busy at the time of the night and day," I go to do the certificate, look at the decoration materials are all when it is Riding a battery car is a waste of time. " Wang Xia said. "The apartment was just renovated in March 2017, when it was a bit cold, but it was cold, and it was worried about the breakdown of the electric car." Wang Xia recalls that time, really want to have his own three headed and six arms, can quickly handle all kinds of things, "that time the phone rings, not the decoration materials are not enough, it is to do the above thing, night is not insomnia, is the dream is in the telephone."
sometimes Wang Xia busy forgot to pick up her little daughter after school, and all the teachers hurried on the phone. Since then, Wang Xia's biological clock has been completely disrupted, 12 o'clock in the night before sleep, and always wake up after sleeping, worried that no decoration is good, worry about the link of the error. "Around May, I felt like I could not support myself. I cried when I wanted to cry. I was worried that my child would see it." Wang Xia said. "Every time I finish a room, I'll breathe a sigh of relief when I run a card."
Wang Xia said, there are too many things to worry about every day. After the initial preparation of the nursing home, the old people in the land and land continue to stay. At this time, Wang Xia began to lose sleep and worried that the old people would not adapt to the new environment. "The old people here, most of the life can't take care of themselves, I worry about the physical condition of the elderly," If I can't sleep, I'll be on duty with my staff. "
, sometimes after sleeping, Wang Xia must get up in the middle of the night to see the situation of the old man. "I can't get up every night to see two trips. I'm not sure, now I start to sleep every one of the old people." Wang Xia will take his little daughter to stay with the old man with his little daughter, to take care of the old people, and the two children help Wang Xia to do whatever he can. The little daughter helps the old man feed and the eldest daughter helps her on duty in the hall. "The old people will be happy when they see children, so that they can quickly integrate into the new environment." Wang Xia said.
"when there was no money to pay the rent, employees lent me the money to buy a house."
Wang Xia said for the time to build an old apartment. He wanted to break every penny into two flowers, but it felt that there was not enough money to invest, there was always too much to spend, the house of the old apartment, Without an elevator, Wang Xia reinstalled the elevator without heating. Wang Xia installed a wall mounted stove with electricity. The money to sell the house is spent, and the loan. The loan is not enough, and borrow money from relatives and friends. There's not enough money. Just look at what else you can sell. "During those days, if I had to endure, I would persuade myself all day long to get over it. I could not disappoint those who loved me. I wanted to be an example for my children." Wang Xia said.
Wang Xia's old apartment is a four storey apartment, and the annual rent is about 800000. "When I paid the rent in February this year, I had no money. After the staff knew, the money was taken out to the son to buy the house. I paid the rent. I cried at that time." Wang Xia said. Even if it was harder, Wang Xia said she would not give up because there were so many people around her helping her silently and encouraging her.
when the capital turnover is difficult, the wages of employees can not be timely issued, but as long as Wang Xia is in the hands of some surplus, the salary of employees will be issued in time. "They are not easy to count on this salary, and the money will be paid to them."
gradually into the right track people have difficulties and help a
now Wang Xia's old apartment close to 20 elderly people stay, pay rent, the family members of the elderly know the economic situation of Wang Xia, in advance to the late fee. "It's not easy for a woman to start her own business. She takes care of the old people carefully." Speaking of taking care of the elderly, everyone around Wang Xia praised her.
at the end of 2017, the elderly apartment ushered in an elderly person who was nearly 100 years old. She stays in bed for a long time, and simple activities depend on wheelchairs. In the first few weeks when she first arrived in the apartment for the elderly, the old woman was lying on the bed every day and had difficulty eating. "The elderly's children do not agree with nasal feeding, so she slowly feed her grandmother to eat liquid food, and sometimes it takes more than an hour for a meal." The employees of the elderly apartment told the reporter. Sometimes Wang Xia goes out to train. The old man did not eat. Wang Xia returned to the apartment for the aged to take care of the old man for lunch at noon and then returned to training. The staff said Wang Xia spoiled the old man. "They said I was spoiled. I think the old man is a child. He is really good to him. He can feel it."
it is more difficult to start a business. Wang Xia will do his best to help others. Mr. Gao lives near an apartment for the elderly. His father was more than 60 years old with diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease and so on. His mother was hospitalized for a long time, and his wife did not work. Mr. Gao himself burdened the burden of the family. After knowing Wang Xia, he took the initiative to reduce the cost and let Mr. Gao's father live in an apartment for the elderly. "I just do everything I can to help others." Wang Xia said.