van Xiao Zi / Yangzi Evening Paper
Shao Haixia and children. At the age of 6 in the evening of the Yangzi, her parents died. At the age of 17, she had just joined the work. She had left the poor children who were not taken care of in the school to live in their own homes, tutoring their homework, washing and cooking for them. In the past 29 years, she has helped 59 local left behind children. She is Shao Haixia, a Chinese teacher in Yancheng City Shihai experimental school, and her children call her "mother Shao".
Shao Haixia was born in the small fishing village near the Yellow Sea, in the northeastern part of Binhai County because of the child
Binhai harbor town in Binhai County, Binhai County, in the northeastern part of Binhai County. When Shao Haixia was 6 years old, her parents died because of illness. She lived with 10 brothers and sisters. In 1988, when she graduated from high school, she was only 17 years old. She taught at the local school and lodged in her second sister's home.
because of her frustrations, she pays special attention to children who lack parental care.
"a boy sits in the corner of the classroom all day and never wants to talk to other children." After many contacts, Shao Haixia learned that the child, Li Xiaoming (the pseudonym), was a young father. After her mother remarried, she had been living with her grandmother. For a long time, he was not able to care for him.
when Shao Haixia returned home, he discussed with his second sister and decided to take Li Xiaoming home to take care of him. This became the first left behind child in her life. "At that time, there were four children in the family, and he came back to be 5." The 4 children in Shao Haixia's family were relatives with his own blood relationship, but Li Xiaoming was an outsider, but she never looked at him as an outsider. "He was like me, as I was young, so I know what he needs."
child constipation she used hand to pick
Ding Xiaojun (pseudonym) parents for a permanent job, for a long time there is no parental control, the child is usually very rebellious, the mouth has been dirty words constantly.
"even if it is impossible, let him be adult." This was the second child Shao Haixia received, and the most difficult child she had met. "I didn't go home from school. I didn't learn it well. I didn't speak well. The last slap always woke him up." In the six grade, he got the first prize and it was the biggest reward for me.
laundry, cooking, lesson preparation, teaching... Shao Haixia is repeating the same job every day. Shao Haixia said, Ding Xiaojun long constipation, less than 35 days more than more than a week will not go to the toilet, bulging stomach, from time to time crying for pain, which makes her very worried. "He couldn't defecate smoothly when he saw that he was sweating profusely." One night in
1995, her other "child" dream (the pseudonym), sudden acute appendicitis, she sent her overnight bus to the county hospital of nearly 100 miles away, the child woke up and cried her "Shao Mama".
little dream parents did not go home for years because of their debts. Since then, Shao Haixia is the home of a little dream.
the family slowly understood her
1995, and Shao Haixia came to the age of marriage marriage, and her boyfriend did not understand why she did it, but she did not say anything. In 1997, Shao Haixia married her own child, and her family objected to her parting child. But she insisted.
"it will be a very hard day, and the family is crowded in the more than 40 square meter room, and the family is full of high and low beds." In 2000, Shao Haixia's husband was laid off and laid off. He had to be forced to go to South of Jiangsu for a part-time job. "He said this day was not passed, and he didn't come back later."
after more than three years of persuasion, until 2003, Shao Haixia's husband slowly accepted the status quo. "He would also like to open it. He often buys clothes for children and snacks, which is a comfort to me."
29 years, Shao Haixia's family has never been interrupted children, so far, a total of 59 left behind children.
the body is really bad, and then rest
because of the poor family, Shao Haixia's body has been not very good, combined with so many years of hard work, she suffers from severe anemia. "Once on the podium, the students were scared and foolish. Now my wife doesn't know." In September,
2013, Shao Haixia was swollen all over the body, and her colleagues urged her to go to the hospital for treatment, but she always said she would be delayed to the students and the children needed care. After knowing her husband, he hurried home to take her to the hospital for examination.
in fact, Shao Haixia was diagnosed with uterine fibroids in 2008, and she kept the examination report under the bottom of the box by hiding it from everyone. It was not until the doctor gave serious warning that Shao Haixia decided to operate on a weekend. "So you don't have to ask for leave."
"I just insisted on doing this thing. It's no big deal."
Shao Haixia said, now his body is not as good as in previous years, until the real lack of strength will decide to rest.