People's daily youth view: the "midlife crisis" you encounter may be a "false crisis".
"people's Daily" (19 edition, 28, 03 month, 2017)
from "the middle age woman born in 1988" To "34 year old old son", and then to "1992 people have officially entered the middle age"...... Recently, not a little precaution, "1992 middle-aged crisis" quietly hit, triggering heated debate. As a post-90s, in this argument, I also want to say "sorry, I'm not middle-aged."
don't grow old and don't want to grow up. This is a simple idea of many people. Just like in everyone's heart, the atrium lives on the side of "young", while the ventricle side lives "Youth". Of course, how to define youth, how to identify teenagers, from the perspective of age division, is not fixed, will also float with the development of the times. The "1992 middle age crisis" comes from the definition of youth by the United Nations, that is, 15 to 24 years old. It is easy to form the age section in the three generation of old and middle Qing, but I am afraid that no one is old or who is young.
is middle age, age is never a pass, mentality and temperament are. In the traditional cognition, "every middle age, there must be anxiety", there are old, lower and small, home and outside, the pressure is exerted at the same time, if the current life is not satisfied with the current life, the middle age crisis becomes a very difficult psychological obstacle. Regretfully, after 80, 90 people, although not to middle age, but early felt the middle age stage only that anxiety, heavy pressure and unwilling. The mentality of "aging" and temperament of "old form", so that they lack the vitality.
the "1992 middle age crisis" from age to social network, the style of painting has already changed a few times. It is filled with pride, self mockery and ridicule, but it also fills the community with the tension of reality and the confusion of the future. How can we understand the entanglement of "micro and heavy heart"? Let's take a look at the time and space of history.
generally speaking, the post - 1980s and post - 90s are at an unprecedented rate and in a short period of time, the road that has not been passed by the predecessors has not only opened up the knowledge, enjoyed the well-being, but also suffered pressure. However, the advantages and disadvantages of the times are not completely symmetrical. Although there is a lot of effort, it is more obvious to people. With the growth of reform and opening up, the post-1980s witnessed the country's strong, better education, broader vision and more opportunities; with the growth of the Internet, the post-90s witnessed the virtualization of the world, more international, more open, and more yuan. They are both the tide makers of the times and the new force of development. In this sense, the "midlife crisis" that came early after the 1980s and 1990s is not so much a sign of age, but rather a mark of the times.
80 and post-90s "grow up with the times", and do not allow this experience to be submerged in complaining and complaining, which is the correct way to open the mind and start again. This is a bad time, because the school has just begun to bear the "cry and the hesitation" of the house; it is a good time, because no matter the campus or the socialization, there is enough stage to make it possible to be a reality; this is a clever time, because no one has set the meaning of "what age to do anything", young as Wang Yuanke. Speaking on behalf of China in the United Nations, as senior translator Xu Yuan Chong, aged more than 90, he still "stole some time from the night" to prove "the presence of life" with his works.
thus, this is a "corner era", and everyone is the protagonist of the times. The age of a man is as large as that of a tree. It is the work of time that determines the thickness of a tree. Therefore, the wheels of the times are rolling forward, and everyone is constantly moving. The difference is whether we can keep up with the times and even surpass the times. No need to entangle young and young, with the growth of the times "1992" is flourishing, nothing more powerful than the jointing growth, nothing more dazzling than blooming brilliance, the front of the pit or what is a crisis, it is necessary to know that bamboo is not internode, nor high saving.
some people say that the turning point has made the backbone of society. However, no social backbone only buys "interval tickets". Only those who resist the hardship and stick to it in the wave of the age of revolution can open up a new era. Because the middle age is wrong, don't get out of the car early in the middle age. "Old driver" looks at you!