A man is over forty, without saying four words
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comparison will make friends become passers-by, excellent will make others despise, smart will also annoy people, comparing is not to say, is not to do, but willing.
the heart of comparison, will make people misunderstand, but also make yourself a difficult person, there is no advance, there is no tolerance, the comparison will make people narrow, it will make people disorderly, and the people are forgiven and tolerant to middle age.
2, impulsive
will make people lose their senses, get closer to poverty, impulsiveness, is an adjective, also to express the heart, to render life, to reduce intelligence, so the smart people never say.
people to middle age, see, want to open, not impulsive, not to speak impulsive words, do not want to impulse, because of the vicissitudes, experience wind and rain, not willing to nagging, also unwilling to impulse.
impulse can make people lose self-confidence, lose their mind and cause more trouble. As the saying goes, think before you leap.
3, try the words can not say,
can do after all, is to do, do not do, why try, have confidence, there is no need to say more, no confidence, why need to say more.
being a man, speaking can't eat words, do things, can not always bully, try the word, will let a person worry, will also make your mind close, more disturbing, good things can be smashed. The heart must not be looked straight at, it will hurt itself, and human feelings can not be tried, it will delay the inner cultivation.
being a human being is not a trial. It makes people feel like a leader. People who are unable to try things can make people feel scared.
4, the words can not be said,
say is a kind of deception, misfortune is not hurt your children and grandchildren, get a temporary benefit, the lost is the future of blindfolded.
you sometimes borrow money, sometimes smile, don't build on the pain of others, don't put hope on others' grief.
People's words, first deceive oneself, after the perfunctory is others, get the benefit, lose is the personality, win is deception, pay is ignorant.