forty before we understand: friends are like water Fish, deep water and shallow water will never go together; poor and rich, officials and people, grass roots and dignitaries are impossible to be true friends, because their understanding of life is different, and the key is their difference in the heart of the world and nature. Even rich and rich, officials and officials, dignitaries and dignitaries will not become real friends. Because of the benefit, the difference, the choice, the weight, the concern, the separation of the three, the six and the six, the heart of the dissension of the worldly interests, so that there will be no true feelings. After
forty, it is clear that youth is enviable, but maturity is more lasting. Looking at women is no longer just like the beauty of youth, more emphasis on maturity, serenity, nature and clarity; more emphasis on women's mind, magnanimity, wisdom and kindness; more emphasis on the connotation of stable maturity and the occasional tender.
forty before you know: be sincere thanks to the person who has been waiting for your life, because he is the harbor of your life; smile to the person you have hated, because he makes you stronger; thank you sincerely for the one you ever loved, because he made you know love; thanks to the person who betrayed you, if not, you wouldn't understand the world. To the person you have secretly liked, wish him happiness, because you want him to be happy when you like him; for a trustworthy person, get along with him, and don't meet a few sincere friends or true confidant in his life.
forty, I realized that a man's emotions do not like being controlled by women, especially those who do not like to be controlled by the women who are working on their minds, which not only loses their self-esteem, but also distorts the soul. They need to communicate in peace and heart. Feelings are neither high nor low, nor need to be controlled or mastered. Feelings are naturally flowing with the heart, and intentional control and pursuit will not have true feelings. The sincere feelings of the world require the tacit understanding of the soul, and even the natural communication between them. After
forty, it became clear that things in the world are complex and simple. You are simple and the world is simple. To live unrestrained and brilliant is to bear pain. Everything has two sides or many facets. Sometimes it is hard to say what is right or wrong. You like what you like, and it's probably just what others hate and spit on. The world and nature do not develop or destroy with your own will. After
forty, I realized that happiness index is entirely determined by mentality. The delicacies and delicacies of years of age do not necessarily bring about the comfort of the mind. Between coping and hypocrisy, the final cause may be a more and more empty mind. After
forty, it is clear that in life, there is no need to worry about more than a few heterosexual bosom friends, that is your life's ups and downs and wonderful chapters. But for heterosexual bosom friends, we should be more loving, less greedy, more understanding and less demanding. To place emotion in a free space and treat others kindly is to treat yourself kindly. Let each other do not have to bear the burden of affection, let sunshine and warmth always shine and soothe the love of life. After
forty, I realized that love, friendship and even love are not many. In my spare time, I think about it for a few decades. How many reliable friends and confidant are there? Do not look at and distinguish friends from the perspective of their so-called status or official positions. These so-called friends may be the most unreliable friends. In addition to work, people have broader living space. Jobs and positions are not the only ones in life. As the saying goes, it is enough to have a friend in life. Perhaps after thinking of it, even a confidant is not, and the soul is desolate. We should always reflect on ourselves. Is it really good to treat others? Be tolerant, magnanimous, kindly, true feelings for true feelings. After
forty, I realized that a wife or husband had already seemed plain and unbearable. But the years have merged with each other. Even harder and harder to tolerate, it is part of life. When you are together, you may not cherish them. If they are different, you will find it hard to leave. After
forty, it is clear that the first care and indulgence of the children not only make us a kind of negative tired, but also make the child slow to stand the backbone of life. When they were young, they were afraid that they would suffer hardships, for fear that they would suffer, and that they would be afraid of wind and rain and fear of them. There is too much fear. When they grow up, we still have to worry about our deep sorrow and pain. How can we see the rainbow without going through the wind and rain?
forty, I understand that none of us can win the game with time, "life is short", not an empty word, for the more than 40 year old people, a lot of feelings. Face everything calmly, live yourself, live confidence, think about what you should do, love yourself, and love others. No matter when and where, we should cherish the fate, whether it is the traveller of your life, or your long-term confidant. It is a wonderful memory of your life. There are few real friends in the sea. Please don't care about this. Don't wait until you can't do anything to turn up the regrets and regrets of your life.