5 characteristics that people are not yet mature
< br / > there are many adults in this society, and are not yet divorced. Childish behavior. A little thing is arguing with others.
1, the first characteristic of human immaturity is to immediately return
he does not know that only spring sowing, autumn will harvest. Many people just pay a little bit when they are doing anything, and they will be rewarded immediately. (learning piano, learning English and so on, at first, it was hard to find it.
a lot of people do business, start with no achievements, thinking about to give up, some people give up one month, some people give up three months, some people give up half a year, some people give up a year. Giving up
is a habit, a habit of a typical loser. So you need to have a vision, a bit farther to see, and a vision to see the future.
there must be a sentence to those who give up their habits in life: "winners never give up, and those who give up never succeed." So why do many people do things easily? The famous American master of success Napoleon Hill said:
the poor have two very typical mentality: 1, always say "no" to the opportunity; 2, always want to "get rich overnight."
today when you put all opportunities in front of him, he will say "no". Today you have a successful hotel, you open your hotel's successful experience, tell your friends and friends from the heart, let them open the hotel, can you guarantee that each of them will open a hotel? Whether someone does not do it.
so this is a very typical mentality of the poor. He will say, "you can do it, I can't do it!" The performance of one night's riches is that you tell him any business, his first question is "make no money";
you say "earn money", he immediately asked second questions "easy not easy", you said "easy", then he followed the third questions "fast", you say "quick"! Then he said, "OK, I do it!" Oh, you see, he is so naive!
everyone think, there is one in this world: "to make money, easy, and fast", no, even if there is not a round of us, so in life, we must know how to pay. So why do you have to pay?
because you are trying to pursue your dream, people are living for hope and dream. If a person does not have a dream and no pursuit, there will be no meaning in that life.
you have to pay what you want in life.
if you want to get time, you have to give time first. If you want to get money, you have to pay the money first. If you want to get a hobby, you have to sacrifice your hobby first. If you want to spend more time with your family, you have to spend less time with your family.
however, one thing is clear: your effort in this project will be doubly rewarded. Like a seed, after you plant it, water it, fertilize it, weed it, kill it. In the end, what you gain is not a few times, hundreds of times of return.
in life, you must know how to pay, you don't have to be so quick and quick, and immediately want to get a return. There is no lunch in the world. It is impossible to succeed lightly.
must know how to pay first!