origin: Phoenix Fashion Author: the sky is forever blue
is known to the sky forever blue, as long as a woman is over 35 years old, there will be a lot of confusion and annoyance. It can be said that there are elderly people to support, there are children to be nurtured, and there is also a career oriented man to coax. Women of this age are really not easy. They need to accept family, social and psychological and physiological challenges.
a few of them have been knocked down. They are separated from the flesh and body, and their body and mind are different. They are not satisfied with their needs. The sky is always blue, and the blue sky is preliminarily summed up. The middle-aged women probably have four hard injuries:
one, the heart's desire;
the woman was 35 years old, the marriage was in the flat, the early years of the passion between the husband and the husband disappeared, and in the eyes of all the relatives and friends, it was a real and real old man. People live a three-point life every day, home, office and vegetable market, day after day, the wind does not start, but also does not wrinkle a pool of spring water. Anyway, the days are so dull and dull that they do not have to go for themselves, but more for children and outsiders' eyes.
but when it comes to the dead of night, the most true heart will come to me and ask yourself repeatedly in the ticking of the clock: do I have any longing for it? Do you still need other people's praise and attention? How long has my husband not accompanied me to buy vegetables for cooking? Honestly, I don't want it to be a fake, my dear husband. You've been on a business trip for a week without calling home. I miss you!
two, body's perplexity;
once a middle-aged woman once said in a blue letter to the sky, "I hate God's disagreement, why it wants to make my man exhausted every day in the most perplexed year of man, but I don't know the most." In the age of men, have they consumed so much thoughtfulness and passion?
in my mind, the sky is always blue and can understand the complaint of the middle-aged woman very well. Her complaint is due to the confusion of her body. Think of their youthful and beautiful young age, they are like the wind, each step will leave the fragrance of the impression, attract countless attention, such age they never lack men, but they do not seem to need men.
but as the age increases, men become more and more appreciated, but they fade away after the flowers bloom, but this is only superficial. But their body energy is in reverse with the appearance of the outward, there are thirty such as wolves, forty as tigers, the kind of disguised but full of picky hunger seems to have no way of saying, always inadvertently let them with the perplexity of the farther away.
the third, spiritual pursuit;
based on all kinds of reasons, so the sky always blue always emphasizes that the middle age women need to have their own pursuit. This pursuit is not to buy beautiful clothes, to make a handsome and unrestrained boyfriend, but to fully understand themselves, respect themselves, from the heart even the depth of the spirit. Go up and improve yourself. It can be a meaningful hobby, a positive social activity, or a piece of music that enlightens the soul. It can also be a profound and far-reaching attitude to life.
four, drifting of the soul.
a woman after 35 years old, the husband no longer only belong to them, he has his own business, the more excellent he is, the more women take advantage of you to compete with you when you don't pay attention. The male mother-in-law, and his own father and mother, how four old people to take care of them, how to take full consideration of their feelings, how to smooth the water on both sides, and how to run in both her family and her mother's home.
these daily tedious things can always give people an illusion of wandering. After a few years, the children are big, they no longer belong to their own, they want to live school, a little time to spend a little time to accompany their own friends, then they will love to marry and have children, women can not find a rest of the feeling.
this kind of drifting is cold and piercing, but it can not be rid of. This seems to be the inevitable destination of every good woman in Chinese traditional concept. The sky is always blue and blue. They are poor. They have come over for thousands of years. Even today, in twenty-first Century, this situation has not been fundamentally changed.
don't care too much. You must live for yourself. This is the only sky that can be given to them.