for the average person, the "funeral home" and "fire chemical" are all sounding words, and most people, too, are respectful to such a profession. As workers in special industries, how do they spend their daily lives? Qingming approaching, reporters approached the 42 year old woman fire chemical - Zhang Fenglian. Reporter Xuan Xiaoxia
loss: Students' party does not call her
funeral industry. There is an unknown "ban" and "unwritten regulations". Unlike other service industries, from the first day of work, they can not easily say "hello", "goodbye", and more unsmiling service. On weekdays, they do not shake hands with others, nor do they easily attend friends' wedding banquet and birthday banquet. Even relatives have added babies, and they dare not come home easily.
until April 1st of this year, Zhang Fenglian, 42, was 20th anniversary in the funeral industry. In the past 20 years, she worked as a squad leader for women's cremation class in Ji'nan funeral home.
"many students marry, have parties, or add dolls. They are not called me. This is what I learned later." There is a sense of loss behind the understatement. "After all these years, I got used to it. I didn't feel like I was more conservative now than I am now. I'm more afraid of death."
gratifying: the daughter and the family fully understand their
from the copy, the ashes, the debridement remains, the finance, and then to the present fire chemical industry. Zhang Fenglian, who has been employed for 20 years, has almost been "a circle" at the post of the Ji'nan funeral home. In her eyes, she was lucky. The older generation of the family is engaged in funeral and interment, and her work is not taboo in the family. Fortunately, in that era, she met a lover who accepted her work.
in 1997, Zhang Fenglian and her lover met together. "At that time, I wanted to confess my work with others first, and if the other party did not mind, then I could be lucky to meet." Zhang Fenglian knew clearly that the marriage of the funeral and interment workers was a big problem. "After all, are we dealing with dead people, or are there many people who are taboo about our work?"
now, Zhang Fenglian's daughter is 12 years old. In front of his classmates, this clever girl never thinks that his mother's work is embarrassing. Instead, he sometimes jokes freely with his classmates.
Feeling: the most afraid of the death of the same age
"life is too fragile, the moment is very difficult, a lifetime may blink in the past, what reasons do not cherish it?" Sometimes the white haired person sends black hair person, before cremation, some family members will ask to see the last side of the dead in the observation room, after pushing into the cremation furnace, the observation room will have a tore of tears in the heart, and often there is a long kneeling of the family. "Every time I hear a cry, I feel that people are living well." When the ashes were put into the ashes boxes and returned to their families, the fire chemical industry really sent off a life.
the life of Zhang Fenglian, positive sunshine. "There are high officials, civilians, illness, accidents, and so on." To live a day, you must have a positive day. When one is alive, one must love life.