Re: Post-80 women live oral dictation: I gave my youth to the boss.
Padme, 31, a public relations director of a hotel in Guangzhou
hotel industry is probably one of the most turbulent industries in the world. In 8 years, I have been transferred to 6 cities, the longest not more than 3 years, the shortest is only 3 months. I can't tell if I can count as a boyfriend, because I changed three different cities in the last few years of our "definite relationship", and the time we really see every year is very limited. Everywhere I go, I have a sense of temporary presence, and I dare not even fall in love.
you just ask which hotel industry executives will find that both men and women, he / her half is usually in the shape, because the job mobility of the hotel staff is too large, so the other half is often asked to give up their business completely. I have a long distance love for 3 years. At first the other party was eager for me to go to his hometown, but soon we all realized that his city did not have a career that I planned, and my drifting was hard to let him be. When I left Shenzhen to work in Hainan, a working male reporter sent me off, and he told me that if one day you wanted to settle down, then you would have to change a man's work.
this time, I once again bid farewell to Beijing for a year's work, and the destination is Guangzhou. More than a year ago, when I left my last working place in Haikou, I bought myself a small house. It is strange that people who live in such a turbulent life have a place in one place. I can't say it is clear that there may be too many things not to be controlled by themselves, so I hope to keep something that really belongs to us.
"at my age, I can't find him."
WeiWei, 37 years old,
, chief representative of foreign construction office in China, is my colleague with her ex husband. This is such a natural marriage. He has talent, I am talented, and everywhere we go, we are all praised. But in real life, chess, chess, calligraphy and painting are potent drugs, but fuel and salt are poison. No one volunteered to clean up the kitchen, mutual shuffling of household chores, all kinds of meaningless trivial disputes, and carved countless cracks in the mirror of life. Men no matter what growth background and education profession, there are some male chauvinism. In those years, we were in a spiraling struggle. Every time he went on a business trip, he was "right and unreproach". And every time I go to work, I have to face a week of housework.
I am now in Beijing, the chief representative of China. My work is still crowded by people in the construction industry, executives from architects, and powerful developers. I don't think I'm strong, but I also have some air. When I was in my twenties, I deliberately blackened the natural silver hair of heredity, but today, I prefer to be original. I've drawn thousands of commendable designs, but for years I've only done a few regular dishes. In those days, Edward Lam wrote to Li Jian Hui's words very well to summarize my mood: because each person (woman) will not.
because of my current position and age, I dare to pursue my most successful young people. There are also admirers of my age or younger than me, but most of them compliment me on the one or two sentence, and their faces are ruddy and courteous. Whenever I laugh at this time, when I was in my twenties, my eyes did look up. It is a necessary condition to make a case. It is necessary and necessary for me to worship. But today, as a mature woman, I feel my own change. The young girls want to get everything from men to me, so the conditions are not important, but where is the man for me?