Zhou Guihua with her husband Get out of bed 
Zhou Guihua help husband massage
Ding Shan community, Jiangmen street, Nanjing City Drum Tower District, there is such a good wife. After third years of marriage, her husband diagnosed with progressive muscular dystrophy, suddenly from a normal person became unable to walk, unable to stand, became a gradually frozen person. His wife, Zhou Guihua, never fails to give up. She takes the trouble every day to take care of her husband lying in bed. He has no regrets and persists for 28 years.
every day, 1 meters 59 of Zhou Guihua, all to back 1 meters 72 of the husband, out of bed more than 10 times, eat, go to the toilet, bathing, and sometimes on the back of the door, up and down four floors. "I don't have her without her." The husband is full of gratitude and regards his wife as a treasure. "God has given me a rare disease, but it has sent me a good wife who is hard to find in the world." In Zhou Guihua's mind, her husband is also proud of her. "He is strong and optimistic. The doctor said he had lived for several years, but now it has been 28 years."
rare disease, let the family get into trouble. In the
1986 year, Zhou Guihua and her husband who worked in Xiaguan, Nanjing, met and fell in love and got married. In 1987, the lively and lovely son was born and the family became happier. However, two years later, the accident came. In 1988, the husband was diagnosed as progressive malnutrition muscular dystrophy and became a gradually frozen person.
"heaven seems to have made a joke with the family." Good people, how can not stand? " Zhou Guihua shook his head, and so far it was hard to believe. You know, in the 80s of last century, the word "getting cold" was still unknown, and the cause of the disease was not explored. As the literal meaning of froze people is, the patients mainly show slow muscle atrophy, muscle weakness and varying degrees of movement disorders.
"just started to sit down and couldn't stand up. Afterwards, you couldn't even sit up, your hands and legs could not make up your strength, your arms and legs became more and more thin." Zhou Guihua recalled that disease is like a devil's upper body, and suddenly it's terrible.
fate has no sign of a rare rare disease. Zhou Guihua and her husband did not sit still, but struggled. In 1989, the family began to struggle against illness. Beijing, Tianjin, Wuhan, Shanghai and Shijiazhuang seek medical advice everywhere. But the savings, debt, and more hopelessness are that when you struggle on the edge of bad and worse, you find that the harder it is, the harder the harder the result is.
"it's a good family to do a lot of help." When the economy was in the most difficult time, parents and brothers and sisters on both sides came to help. Zhou Guihua said, this gave them a lot of encouragement. Later, modern medical surveys showed that 20% cases of gradual freezing were related to genetic defects, and there was no good cure in the medical field, which was an incurable disease. The family can only accept the fact.
she is always racing with time, carrying the burden of life, "myasthenia, gradually frozen people, no matter what disease, as long as people still, we have to live well." Just when a family had despair of life, Zhou Guihua took the lead in adjusting his mindset. "Dead horse is a living horse doctor". She would not hesitate to spend money on drugs and insist on treatment. When the husband was unable to walk, she learned to tie needles and give her husband fluids. Learn to massage and massage the acupoints for the husband.
in order for her husband to live comfortably, Zhou Guihua picked up her husband every day and sat down on the balcony to sit in the sun. In summer, he takes him to the bathroom every day, bathing and showering. Zhou Guihua 1 meters 59, to 1 meters 72 husband back up, each time to exert all strength, sweating. Even though it was so hard, Zhou Guihua never complained and gave up.
"if I am not strong, my family will be hopeless." Even in the hardest time, Zhou Guihua still carries the burden of life with strength. In 1997, Zhou Guihua was laid off from her original unit. She not only had to take care of her husband, but also had to work to support her family. The children go to school all by her. So she found two families to work as a part-time worker. One in the morning and the other in the afternoon will be back at noon to cook and take care of their husbands.
neighbors also know Zhou Guihua is not easy, the courtyard people and her greeting, also always will tell her, "you slow down, don't worry, watch your feet..." As everyone knows, she is the pillar of the family, the old mother-in-law, the sick husband, the son of school, all depend on her thin body and thin shoulders to carry up.
"every time she sees her, she is in a hurry, a trot, or a little bucket to go out to do the work, or to carry the food to get home and cook. The feeling is always' running 'in time. The neighbor said, aunty Huang.
couples say:
"you are my pride"
recently, the modern express reporter walked into Zhou Guihua's house. Although no decoration, indoor layout is simple, but four are very clean. The old washing machine was rattling, and it was drying the clothes. Zhou Guihua was in the room, turning over and massaging her husband lying in bed.
20 over the years, Zhou Guihua learned a lot of massage massage techniques, she and her husband daily communication, more is "where is uncomfortable" "so comfortable?"?
it is precisely because of such years of careful care that her husband, though lying on the bed all the year round, feels very happy. Every time I mention my wife, my husband always has tears in his eyes. "I don't have her without her." The husband said, "I always imagine that one day I am sick and can go. I will let my wife rest for a while, and I will take care of her."
once, in order to reduce the trouble, the husband tried to help the staircase down the stairs and subsidize the household with the disabled assisting car. One winter, Zhou Guihua was in the hospital with the father-in-law. He went home a little late. Her husband climbed up to drink water and took medicine. Whenever she saw her husband working so hard, Zhou Guihua was very moved and heartache. She said, "two people have encouraged each other and moved each other, until today."
Zhou Guihua said, in her heart, she was very proud of her husband. At the beginning, the doctor said that her husband could only live for 5-7 years. Now, for 28 years, her husband is still alive, and there is no bedsore and muscle necrosis on her. The husband said, "wife is his greatest pride, because" God has given me a rare disease, but also sent me a good wife who is hard to find in the world. "
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Ding Shan community resident Huang Xiaoqin
she is an ordinary good man
a good good wife, a good wife
saying: "husband and wife are the birds of the same forest. There is a good wife Zhou Guihua around us. After her husband got sick, he never left behind for 28 years. He was strong and kind. Although she did not have any bold words, she did not do anything great, but she did not abandon her love to her lover, but it was worth learning.
now, Kung Fu does not bear the heart of the people, under the care of the heart of Guangxi, the husband's body treatment is good, the old woman is also in his late years, the son is also grown up, and soon to get married and set up a small family. As neighbors, we are all happy for Guihua. Now, when I saw her footsteps in the yard, there was a smile on her face. It was a pleasure for my busy son's marriage. Gui Hua finally "kept the clouds open to see the moon."
in addition, after the hard work, Gui Hua also actively participated in community activities, for community residents to distribute community-based newspapers, and so on, is really a common good person, a good wife worthy of praise.