After 70, the disabled couple play tennis instead of being a waster.
origin: China Youth newspaper
Qian Jun and Xu Wenxiu spent a whole 3 years proving that as long as trust love, two wheelchairs People can also live independently and live happily.
a few months ago, through the efforts of the relevant departments of the Yaohai District of Hefei, the heavily mutiled young couple who did not have a stable source of life finally moved into their new home.
this is a one room and one hall of low rent housing, although the facilities are simple, but the host is particularly warm: the walls are spotless, the cooker is polished, a lot of green plants are planted on the balcony, and a pet dog is turning on the floor. The two desktop computers are particularly attractive in this newly renovated house. "Without the Internet, we will not walk out of that dark day, nor will we meet. It is the Internet that gives us the opportunity to search for the lost self." The 39 year old Qian army said this year.
earned the first 5 cents on the Internet
21 years ago, because of an untimely treatment of an accidental injury, the central nervous system of the Qian army was severely damaged, and the following chest was unaware. He was 18 years old and he couldn't accept the cruel reality. In the small town of acquaintances in Wuwei County, Anhui, he kept himself in the house for more than 10 years. Occasionally, when he was driven out by a family member in a wheelchair, he was afraid to encounter others' strange gaze and never dared to look up. In the year of
2006, when Qian Jun was 30 years old, his mother bought him a computer and installed broadband at home. "From that moment on, I got in touch with the world again." Qian Jun quickly met many disabled netizens on the Internet, who had the heart to heart in their lives. But what Qian Jun most wanted to do was to earn money and prove that he was also valuable. "
" to help others register their accounts, do game practice to others, do online shop customer service, I often sleep the whole night and night, to prove that he is not a waste. " Qian Jun clearly remembered that he earned 5 cents in his first business. "This is too important for me. I finally made money in the age of 30."
network gives Qian Jun the courage to go out. Once, the computer got a virus, and Qian Jun was sitting in a wheelchair with a computer host. "Because the wheelchair occupied the place, many drivers didn't want to take me. I waited for 5 hours and finally waited for a car." The money army took the first step, and then went further.
Qian Jun went to Hefei, Shanghai and other cities, but also climbed Mount Huangshan. In Mount Huangshan, volunteers did not let him ride the cable car, but carried him to the top of the mountain. "They are just trying to make me feel the process of conquering the summit step by step. At that moment, I burst into tears, and tears held back for more than ten years." Qian Jun said.
"without the Internet, I don't know where she is."
love is often the thing that you don't want to think about, for the severely disabled young people who have lost their ability to walk. However, the "magic" network can not only light the hope of life, but also open the journey of love.
because of his passion for singing, the money army often displayed his musical talent in the chat room. He was filled with a magnetic voice that quickly caught a Shanghai girl named Xu Wenxiu.
because of a car accident, Xu Wenxiu could only sit in a wheelchair and had difficulty in moving. In the first 3 years, Xu Wenxiu did not go out, nor was he willing to speak. After Xu Wenxiu knew the money army on the Internet, two people formed a "golden partner" in the chat room of the Internet: Xu Wenxiu, who loved literature, was in charge of the program, and the Qian army was responsible for singing. "One night, we made up to 200 yuan, and we were very happy." Xu Wenxiu said.
2010 in November, with the help of netizens, Qian Jun went to Shanghai to see Xu Wenxiu on the first side. After that, two people fell in love. At the end of 2011, they put forward their own idea of marriage to their families, and they did not expect both parents to oppose it - "are the two people sitting in a wheelchair that can't take care of each other and live independently?"
helpless, Xu Wenxiu chose "elopement". On the eve of 2012, Qian Jun's younger brother drove him to Shanghai and drove Xu Wenxiu back to Anhui's hometown.
"I just want to prove that our combination is correct." In order to move his father in law, Xu Wenxiu sat in a wheelchair and picked up his home in Wuwei County. Eventually, Qian Jun's parents recognized the Shanghai daughter-in-law. "They said they could finally walk away confidently."
this year's Dragon Boat Festival, Xu Wenxiu's family came to Hefei, "to see the family in front of them, they finally agree with my choice, and feel relieved."
"if there is no Internet, I don't know where she is." This love is precious to the money army. When Xu Wenxiu was ill, he drove a tricycle to buy medicine for her. Despite the inconvenience of going out, he insisted on going out to buy vegetables every day to make delicious meals for his wife.
"we still want to go to a real class"
Qian Jun and Xu Wenxiu spend most of their time online. Two rooms, one person and one computer, do not interfere with each other. In the evening, the money army will sing on the Internet. Now, his fame is getting bigger and bigger, and several original songs have been published online. Many online musicians took the initiative to write songs for him. He became popular in the big Internet chat rooms all the time, and even invited him to sing in the Spring Festival Gala. "However, these are just entertainment and can't create practical value."
although in the virtual space, some friends will send gifts and flowers "reward", and these can be converted into real money, but the income is very unstable, not enough to support the family's expenses. But they do not want to extend their arms to their parents, because they will not question our union only if they prove themselves able to support themselves. Xu Wenxiu believes that this is a dignity, "even those with severe disabilities have the right to choose their own lives".
Qian Jun also wanted to do business entrepreneurship, but "now the threshold of e-commerce is very high, we can not get so much money, and the competition is also very fierce, we have no advantage."
the heavily disabled young people, such as Qian Jun and Xu Wenxiu, have "some paradoxical" attitude to the Internet: Although the Internet has created a miracle for their lives, they still want to be able to walk down the Internet and integrate into real life.
for "singing on the Internet" and "game practice", Qian Jun thought: "this kind of work is to meet the spiritual consumption of others, not to bring a feeling of enrichment, and no sense of achievement."
however, there are few suitable jobs for physically disabled people like Qian Jun. For him, it was a painful torment to go out every time: it took 20 minutes to drive the whole lower body to "dump" himself from the wheelchair to the tricycle.
fortunately, the lucky couple still waited for a little bit of hope. "Recently, a friend is going to open a communication operator's office downstairs. We know the computer and can help him."
"we still want to go to a real class." Xu Wenxiu said he was very envious of the office workers, though he was busy, but he could find a job.