After 80's father's new father's new image
Shandong business daily
today's 80s boys mostly like Daddy, and they are labeled "rebel" from childhood. This year's father's day, the reporter interviewed several Post 80 fathers, and compared with the traditional father's image, they had more labels on their fathers, sun baby, diaper, milk powder, and exchange of childcare experience... Reporter Zhang Shu
"really realize that you are an adult"
"there is not a moment in the world more exciting than the first time to hold your children, but the following is the first responsibility of the father. Now I really realize that you are an adult. " After 80 "Dad" Liu Qianyu said. "To reach out for a meal and to open up a meal, this is used to describe me before children." Liu Qianyu told reporters that the arrival of her daughter changed everything. From the beginning of learning to baby, to change diaper, feed milk, bathing and other general living materials are difficult to fail him, and even from the child's crying to judge whether the child is hungry, whether to pull the cake, whether or not where uncomfortable... "China has the idea of the lack of paternal love. In the patriarchal society, most fathers play the role of authority. They are the mainstay of the family's economy and the core. In order to maintain the prestige, the fathers will get up. In fact, now 80's father is willing to try to bring children, no one will laugh at a father to wash diapers, milk powder and cooking for children. Liu Qianyu said he enjoyed the role of "baby daddy" very much.
friends in the circle of children in the sun, shared growth of the moving
"before looking at the friends almost every day in the show son's daughter's photo, opening the mouth is my son, my daughter, I always disdain in the eyes' despise 'them, think that it is necessary?" He said, "when my daughter came to me, I also became a person who showed pictures of children all day and talked about my children all day."
Liu Qianyu's change of mind represents a lot of Post-80's father's common experience.
the 80s father, Xiao Wang, told reporters that they liked to shine the children's photos, not to show off, to share more, to share with others the joy of their children's growth. "Because we were lonely in childhood, without brothers and sisters. Now we are father, see the growth of the children, and also want to talk to a person. But it's hard to find someone to say that the circle of friends has become the best way.
to be a full-time dairy dad
26 year old Chen quit her job to take care of her daughter sugar candy and become a full-time dairy father.
yesterday afternoon, when reporters saw Xiao Chen, he was playing with sugar candy in the district.
"at the beginning, two old people disagreed, and felt that men were not at home to bring their children to work." Xiao Chen summed up the feeling of being a full-time nurse for 8 months in five words: pain and happiness. He said that when his daughter went to kindergarten, he would consider doing his own business. "How happy it is to be able to grow up with your daughter."
chat children was born in 1980 by a set of
Tang Xiaogang, a civil servant. In December 31st of last year, as his daughter Jiabao was born, he became a "father".
this super baby daddy is very careful and loves his daughter. He has to worry about everything about his daughter. Over time, through practice, online learning and communication with other parents, Tang Xiaogang became a semi parenting specialist, and he was eager to teach some new parents.
reporter has found that this is one of the common features of the post - 80s fathers. They no longer see the experience of childcare as mother-in-law. As long as a couple of milk fathers come together and talk about their children's experience, they are absolutely a set.