32 year old man addicted to Internet: job hunting is not easy to play.
source: the Zhuzhou evening newspaper
"my son is more than 30 years old, now neither work nor object. Back in Zhuzhou for two years, he locked himself in the room all day and indulged in the Internet. Scolded and scolded and persuaded him. I really don't know what to do. Yesterday morning, Mr. Lu, a reader in Tianyuan District of Zhuzhou, telephoned the evening news hotline, saying that the situation of his son Lu was worrying. He wanted to ask the evening paper to help his son.
[father complained]
son all day locked in the room
don't want to get married and make children, do not want to make
yesterday morning, the reporter came to Mr. Lu's house. He said his son, Lu Lu, is 32 years old and has been working in Guangzhou since he graduated from university. Two years ago, he resigned home and stayed at home for a period of time, rented the house outside, not for work, bought a computer all day in the rental room, hungry for lunch.
"until the end of last year, when I was persuasive, my son was willing to go home." Mr. Lu said that after his son came home, he would go to the Internet in other rooms except for eating out every day. Basically do not go out, do not want to contact with outsiders, do not want to communicate with their parents, parents ask a few words, they will quarrel.
let Mr. Lu fail to understand that his son is in the room all day. What is he doing? Xiao Lu is the only child in his family. He doesn't want to get married and have children. He really worries about his parents.
[son tells]
job is resigned after the job is disheartened
to find a sense of
the door of the small land has been locked, the reporter can not go. After Mr. Lu knocked on the door many times, Xiao Lu came out of the room.
in a small land room, doors and windows are closed. At the bedside table, there are two computers, one song, and another computer showing the screen of a network game. It happens that reporters play the game and talk with the game.
originally, Xiao Lu made money by playing games and practicing game accounts for people.
"I also want to go out to look for a job, but the job is really hard to find. What do you do if you find a job and be dismissed? Xiao Lu said that he had been dismissed by the company's boss, and then he ran around to find a job.
he also knows that he is too old to tell his parents that they are going to make a living by playing games. Their parents will be very sad and have never told their parents.
What do parents of small land do?
the Secretary General of the municipal psychological society and Ding Guangmu, a state counselor at the two level, said that the reason why the small land is addicted to the network is not willing to communicate with his parents, and it is likely that the character is more isolated, with the discomfort of the previous work, resulting in the depression of the will.
family can encourage him to participate in social activities and public welfare activities, so that he can be recognized by everyone, making him feel fulfilling and satisfying, and slowly out of the network. As a young man, he grew up in Zhuzhou. He could ask his classmates to be a guest at home, close the relationship between the small land and his classmates, let him find his confidence, and maybe he could find a girlfriend.
Ding Guangmu said he would take time to visit Xiao Lu next week and communicate with him.