Divorce survey in Ji'nan: seven year itch, divorce group, women's share higher
results showed that the difference was the highest among the reasons for divorce, accounting for 46.7%, while the difference in emotional foundation followed closely, accounting for 32.1%. It is worth mentioning that among those who filed for divorce, 608 women filed for divorce, accounting for 58.6% of the total number.
Yu Xiaoli is an associate professor of Law School of University of Jinan. He mainly studies marriage and family law and anti domestic violence legislation. A few months ago, in order to prepare the "Challenge Cup" extracurricular scientific and technological competition, she led some of the undergraduate students in the team, with the data of the divorce dispute of the Chinese referee's net in June 1st June 1, 2013, to the city of Ji'nan (mainly in the central, calendar, almanac, and Tianqiao areas). The divorce dispute cases in Huaiyin District were investigated and analyzed. There were 1039 divorce dispute judgments in the survey sample. After counting 1039 sentences, Yu Xiaoli concluded that the reasons for divorce were varied, but the relationship between husband and wife and the emotional base were 46.7% and 32.1%, respectively. In addition, 3.8% and 3.5% of the total proportion of divorce were raised by the third parties (including mistresses, extramarital affairs) and poor living habits (alcoholism, gambling, drug abuse, etc.). One party had a mental illness, one party serving a sentence or sentenced to a sentence, long separation, bigamy, concealment of the condition, and the whereabouts of the whereabouts of the whereabouts were smaller. According to statistical data, the reasons for disharmony and disharmony can be divided into different values, interests and hobbies, and different lifestyles, according to the statistics of
in addition to emotional discord and bad emotional foundation, the bad habits such as gambling and drinking may also be the cause of divorce. The cases heard by the people's court in the lower district showed that the women's sun and the man, Guo, met on the Internet in August 2011, and the two sides did not know much about the marriage and registration in June 2013. After marriage, there are many differences between the two sides, and the men have gambling habits, often quarrel with the woman. In this regard, Sun Mou believes that the feelings of the two sides have been broken, and there is no possibility of continuing life, and insist on divorce.
long term separation may also lead to divorce, such as Tian Mou and Zhang, who were originally colleagues, who were registered and married after free love. In August 31, 2001, one of the women's fields went to the United States to be a nanny. In November 1, 2010, the son of two people also went to the United States with Tian. In the past more than 10 years, the two sides had only a telephone connection, and the feelings had long been estranged, so the woman put forward a divorce.
statistics found that in 1039 divorce disputes, 608 were divorced by the woman, accounting for 58.6% of the total number of cases.
, Yu Xiaoli believes that, from the data, the women's rights awareness of the post 70 and post - 1980s women's rights has been enhanced compared with the 50 and 60. Women in this age group have been relatively higher education since the reform and opening up, dare to strive for their own marriage and life, and even can support themselves, and do not rely on anyone. It is clearly the embodiment of the enhancement of women's awareness of rights.
a case of divorce from a Post-80's court case. Wang, who was born in 1981, has been in love with a 9 year old man who was born in 1980. Before marriage, two people are in a good mood, and quarrels after marriage. Wang Wang sued for divorce, but the court decided not to divorce. After the ruling, the two sides' feelings did not improve significantly. Wang asked for divorce again.
although the woman filed for divorce, the man insisted on divorce. Shi's reason is that the two people have a deep emotional foundation. The quarrel is mainly caused by the parents of both sides, and at the same time, for the healthy growth of their children, he resolutely disagrees with the divorce.
similar cases are common. Born in 1978, Ren and Wang were registered and married in June 2009. The woman believed that the marriage of the two people was lacking in emotional foundation from the beginning, and they often quarreled fiercely or even bitterness for trivial matters after marriage. The woman insisted that there was no real family happiness at all. In January 2012, the birth of her son did not ease the contradiction between the two sides.
, however, the man argued that only three years after they got married, they would have children. This shows that the relationship between the two sides is very good. Although they often quarrel with each other because of trivial matters, there is no big conflict between the two sides. They hope the woman will give the man a chance and control their emotions later. At the same time, the child has been two years old, hoping to give the child a complete home.
it is worth mentioning that in the thousands of cases of divorce disputes, there is less divorce. Statistics found that only 34.4% of the total divorce was decided, while 65.6% of the total were not allowed to divorce.
Yu Xiaoli believes that most courts will not judge divorce in case of divorce disputes. It is mainly from the angle of stable marriage and family to prevent hasty and impulsive divorce. At the same time, the judgment rejects the plaintiff's claim for divorce on the condition that one party does not want to dissolve the marriage relationship, and gives both parties a calm period and may be possible. It plays a role in saving marriage. In addition, once the court decides to divorce, the consequences of the divorce must be considered by the judge: for example, children's support and growth, family economic disputes and so on.
a divorce dispute, put forward by a man in the court of the Tianqiao District Court, was taken as an example. Zhang, who was born in 1976, was 6 years older than his wife. In February 2004, two people were acquainted with the marriage agency. They were married in less than two months. In September 2005, they had a daughter and had a son in March 2012. The man Zhang thinks, after marriage, the two sides quarrel, hit more and more times, influence the child growth, disturb the neighbourhood peace, both sides more and more no feelings, the female side does not matter to the man and the old man. Before, the man has been working outside the home, the woman has been playing at home, every day to go home, the woman and he is not fighting is noisy, can not continue to live. The man decided to divorce the two men, and asked his daughter to be brought up by the woman, and the son was raised by the man.
the reason for the men's divorce, the woman Gao said that although two people lack of understanding before marriage, but the feelings of marriage after marriage is relatively deep, at the same time, the women think that their own health is not good, the two children have been taken care of by the women and women's parents. More importantly, the two children have a good relationship, and their daughter is very good. Their elder sister is very good to their brother, and they do not want to separate.
to this, the court held that the plaintiff provided only 2 recordings of the quarrel, which proved that the husband and wife had broken their feelings, and the evidence was inadequate. In the end, the court held that the husband and wife of the defendant had not yet broken up.