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2014, Li Chunxia (left) took care of his ex husband in the ward of Beijing Geriatric Hospital. Beijing News reporter Wujiang photo
now that it is destined to become a family, it can not be easily separated. We have been living together for so many years. Family, is to eat hard and enjoy together.
- Li Chunxia
Li Chunxia
sex: female age: 43 year old
Community:
in hot springs village, Haidian District,
"the disease comes like mountain", life lets Li Chunxia feel a lot. Since Li Chunxia married her husband in 1993, she has taken care of four serious relatives, the husbands, the two brothers of their husbands, and the male with cancer.
the main labour in the house fell, and the petite Li Chunxia did not shrink. She was like the wood that stood in his own house, supported the family, and took care of them until the end of his life.
after sending her husband's two brothers and father-in-law, in 2011, Li Chunxia decided to remarry Huan Jiang, a tenant who had helped the family for many years. The two sons agreed to take care of the rice together after marriage, giving him more love and warmth.
at 6 p.m. on January 8th, in the urology ward of Beijing Geriatric Hospital, the 43 year old Michal was sitting in a wheelchair, chewing Li Chunxia to feed his leek fried eggs. Due to cerebellar atrophy, for more than a decade, rice can only be used in wheelchairs, and eating and drinking all depends on Li Chunxia.
a meal has been chewing for a long time, and it has not been swallowed. The red apron across the chest has been soaked with saliva. Li Chunxia put down the pot and straightened his head, and wiped his mouth. The rice looked at Li Chunxia and grin.
after serving the whole meal, Li Chunxia dropped the urine bag tied to the wheelchair and looked at the medicine in the eye bottle. Then she sat on the edge of the bed and began to eat.
this is the life portrait of Li Chunxia in 21 years. In order to take care of the patients in the family, she seldom goes to the street, rarely adds new clothes, and often is too busy to "forget to wipe the face oil".
married to the door that day to take care of bed relatives
in May 1993, Li Chunxia in Wuqiao County, Hebei married into the Haidian District hot spring village of rice.
Li Chunxia said her husband was the third man among his brothers, and the rice in his youth was "spirit and temper. I bullied him, and he had let me, and never had a quarrel." The life together with rice is not rich, but life goes smoothly. After
married to MI family, Li Chunxia took care of her husband's two brothers besides their daily housework. They could not take care of themselves because of the atrophy of cerebellum. "Brother three young bereaved mother, brother never married in a lifetime, two brothers married one year got sick, sister in law divorced, the family also did not have a woman care, looking at the pitiful," Li Chunxia said, the first few years after marriage, her husband to work during the day, she and the male take care of two elder brother.
in 1997, the rice, a small business alone, also appeared to walk skewed and inarticulate, "like the symptoms of his two brothers, I found a lot of pipes, put the wire on, fixed all the places in the house, and let him drag away." Li Chunxia said, looking at her husband's condition deteriorating day by day, he was very frightened. However, no effort was made to control the disease. After 1999, rice was sitting in a wheelchair.
originally thought that three patients in the family had reached the limit. However, Li Chunxia's father-in-law was found to have bladder cancer. "The sky was completely collapsed." Li Chunxia said, the family is ill, the child is young, all the burden is pressed on her one person, seeing a doctor, taking medicine, buying food and cooking, feeding and feeding the water, changing the urine. Li Chunxia has to get up every day, and get up four or five times at night to wait to pull the urine.
to borrow money from her home to pick up the family burden
family fell ill, money became Li Chunxia's most headache, in order to subsidize the family, in 2000, the father of the family in the home of the old house for less than 100 yuan a month to the price of rent to the migrant workers, but the treatment fee is still a day for rice family. Text numbers. Li Chunxia can only borrow money from his relatives in Hebei.
Li Chunxia said, at that time, the father and the Mickey brothers could eat their own meals. She set up a stall in front of her door, sold pen, book and sticker, and had 10 yuan and 8 yuan a day. "In the morning, I get up at 6, make four bowls of rice, send them to the bed, and then sell things with the children at the door. After they finish eating, they will collect the bowls."
do everything you can do, Li Chunxia said, he is strong, he is not easy to turn to others. "Once the electric light broke down, I went to repair it, and after I had just tinkled for a few times, I was caught up in a somersault." Li Chunxia remembers, cooking gas at home, changing gas tanks in six miles a month after more than a month, as the only labor in the family, Li Chunxia pedaling a tricycle, at least two hours and back.
just like this, Li Chunxia supported the family and sent away the whole brother and the second brother of MI Quan. At the beginning of 2009, five, the father of MI Quan died of illness. Li Chunxia's name was signed on the body confirmation. "
" is not easy, "in the eyes of the neighbour Zhang's mother, in these years, Li Chunxia had too much suffering for the family," all the big and small things at home have to be taken care of by Li Chunxia. " Li Chunxia said, "I do not feel bitter, nor are I afraid of bitterness. I am afraid that life has no hope." Li Chunxia admitted that although rice was physically disabled, his mind was clear enough to be able to talk simply. "Sometimes I got the clothes quilt dirty, and I tidied up impatiently and said a few words. He looked at me with a silly smile. After a while, he pushed me and said, 'daughter-in-law you are still angry?'
with the previous husband's commitment not to abandon
2007, the 50 year old Huan River from Hebei home to Beijing to work, rented the house in the front yard of the rice house, and therefore walked into the life of the rice family.
"he (Huan Jiang) lived in the front yard, and we didn't have much communication in the backyard. Later, he often talked with my father-in-law, and everyone was familiar with it." Li Chunxia said that after knowing the two sides, Huan River had time to help her take care of MI Quan and his father.
Huan Jiang was divorced in the early years and was a single worker in Beijing. In his eyes, Li Chunxia was a very kind and strong woman. "From changing gas cans to rubbing coal balls, everything is capable."
took care of the patient for many years, and Li Chunxia's waist had already suffered serious strain. For Li Chunxia, who weighs 90 Jin, it is a huge job to turn over the more than 180 kilograms of father-in-law. After seeing the river, he volunteered to help him. "She can't eat her little body." Huan Jiang remembers, the father of Miquan, who is often crying for cancer, has never been impatient with the old man. "I may not be able to do it, and I especially admire her" by Li Chunxia.
in April 2011, without notice, two cottages in the front yard of MI Jia were demolished, and Li Chunxia went to town and district for many times. Because Li Chunxia could not leave home for too long, Huan Jiang went to go to the village team for her to say, the village began to gossip, Huan Jiang did not care about it, but the strong Li Chunxia felt uncomfortable.
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"let's get married, so others ask, you have identity," see Huan River running for himself and his family. Busy, Li Chunxia was very moved. Huan Jiang immediately declared that he would take care of rice with Li Chunxia and never abandon it.
in May 31, 2011, Li Chunxia and Huan River officially registered to marry. After marriage, Li Chunxia's burden has been lightened. "The most difficult time has passed, and the son is also grown up. Now I hope that rice will be all right."
in 2014, new year's day just passed, and michitsu's urinary system had problems. Li Chunxia and Huan Jiang sent him to the nearest Beijing Geriatric Hospital for treatment. Li Chunxia is responsible for cooking meals, and Huan Jiang is responsible for night beds. Before the Spring Festival this year, the rice was discharged from the hospital, but the condition did not improve obviously. Li Chunxia and Huan Jiang were going to the hospital to take medicine in the early years of the year, and they were also ready to take him to the hospital for examination these days.
"family is to endure hardships and enjoy happiness together". This is the definition of home, Li Chunxia said.