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Liu Weidong (left) at the Xiangtan University, the red bean cake stall is very popular with teachers and students.
in the Xiangtan University, there is a very different couple: the wife is an associate professor of economics in school, but her husband is not a famous scholar - he put a stall near his wife, and it monopolizes the red bean cake. The economic issue he considered most was "is the price of vegetables in the market rising again?"
is not the husband's ambition, so insisting, just to protect his wife's life. After 9 years of insistence on helping his wife to complete his life from a secondary school to a doctor, he still uses a man's strength and a weak wife to be placed under his own wings so that after the test of life and death, he can still pursue her dreams happily.
in December 3rd, the woman / Feng net reporter came to Xiangtan University and approached Liu Weidong and Li Shihua.
to remove all difficulties, he opened for his wife to learn the sail
December 3rd, the beautiful Xiangtan University, the student dormitory corridor on both sides of the corridor, Liu Weidong run the red bean cake stall is not conspicuous. But this little stall business is good, and from time to time, there are students gathered around, most people are familiar, and do not need to ask the price - although Liu Weidong's stall is flowing, but a lot of back guests.
high schools of higher learning tend to eat shops and stalls, and the teachers and students of Xiangtan University are particularly interested in Liu Weidong's red bean cake, not just because he is doing it, but also because behind the honest man who sells red bean cakes, there is a touching story of "save the professor's wife". Liu Weidong is just an ordinary peddler, but his wife, Li Shihua, is a Ph.D. and associate professor of the national key university, Xiangtan University business school.
many people may find it strange: how do two people whose identity is so different come together and how do they know each other? It has to be said from the first acquaintance of the two people.
Liu Weidong and Li Shihua's old home are in Anhua County, Yiyang. Liu Weidong once had a decent job in the supply and marketing department of Anhua county. In 1989, Liu Weidong, 22, met Li Shihua, 19, with his relatives. At that time, Li Shihua graduated from Yiyang normal school and was assigned to teach in a local high school. "Many people like talent and beautiful coexistence teachers."
Liu Weidong gave Li Shihua a steadfast feeling with his honesty and kindness. A year later, two people entered the palace of marriage.
at that time, both husband and wife have stable work, the son is born smoothly, although life is not rich, but the two people cherish the long and flowing happiness.
however, in Li Shihua's innermost feelings, there is still a regrettable regret.
when Li Shihua was 29 years old, she finally got up the courage to tell her husband Liu Weidong that she had always wanted to continue to read, because she missed the opportunity to go to college in a secondary school when she was reading a normal school. The wife's ambition, Liu Weidong sees in the eye. In order to round his wife's dream of learning, Liu Weidong promised: "if you want to study, you can read it now. I will support you."
"if I go to school, my son is only 8 years old, what should I do at home?" Although the husband expressed support, but the reality is not optimistic - Liu Weidong has been laid off a year ago, if Li Shihua now goes to study, the family will fall on the shoulders of the husband.
after some consideration, Liu Weidong used his own responsibility and perseverance to finally let Li Shihua out of the first step of continuing his studies.
in 1999, Li Shihua passed the national adult college entrance examination and was admitted to the Continuing Education College of Hunan Normal University and majoring in English.
when Liu Weidong sent his wife to Changsha to study, many people did not understand, and all the arguments were full of Liu Weidong's ears: "you are so silly, you let the wife read, and when she read the book and the eye opens, she will leave your home, too. Aren't you going to ruin your marriage by yourself? " But no matter what other people said, Liu Weidong still determined his determination. He also believed that his wife would not fail to live up to him and his family after learning: "as long as she has the ability, do not say to read undergraduate, or read graduate students, read doctor, I will help her carry this home."
but Liu Weidong did not expect that his wife would go so high and so far on the way to school.
learning to accomplish, happiness behind
in 2001, after the completion of adult undergraduate study at the Hunan Normal University, a master of economics of Hunan Normal University. In order to achieve this leap, Li Shihua is painstaking. In the half year of preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, she gets up at 6 in the morning and goes to the study room, and she returns to the dormitory only after nearly 12 o'clock in the evening. Li Shihua's guilt is: "often after learning every day, I remember to give my husband and the young son of the phone, but often because of the midnight."
"the more books I read, the less I know." Remembering that period of learning, although hard, but also the most proud of Li Shihua, "I see my tutor treat learning as life, as his student, I hope that I can be like my tutor, put all the pressure aside, through hard work and cultivation, let oneself learn to accomplish."
in 2004, after graduating from graduate school, Li Shihua went all out to be a PhD candidate in political economics at Xiangtan University. In July 2008, Li Shihua received his doctorate in political economics from Xiangtan University. At this time, Li Shihua's decision to continue studying in 1999 has passed 9 years. In 9 years, she completed the flight from a secondary school student to a doctor.
behind Li Shihua's success is Liu Weidong's bitterness. The enormous pressure of life almost crushed him, and for Li Shihua's study, the family had already owed much debt.
fortunately, fortune favors the family at last. After finishing his doctorate, Li Shihua was employed as an associate professor by Xiangtan University at the school of business in economics. Li Shihua, who has learned
, has come to fulfill his promise. In August 2008, Li Shihua got her husband Liu Weidong and his son to be reunited at Xiangtan University. The puzzling and ridicule of the surrounding people turned into admiration and admiration.
when Li Shihua opened school in 2008, as an associate professor, he went to the podium of Xiangtan University. For Li Shihua, this was a very solemn moment, and Liu Weidong, who had paid for it for many years in silence, was at a loss to be happy at the moment of the energetic college campus.
however, happiness did not last long. Shortly after teaching, Li Shihua found that his nose was often streaked with blood and was accompanied by stuffy nose and tinnitus. At first, Li Shihua did not care, but careful Liu Weidong felt his wife's abnormality and insisted on taking Li Shihua to the hospital.
in the morning of September 4, 2008, Liu Weidong brought Li Shihua to Xiangtan Central Hospital. Originally thought it was just a small inflammation, but after a series of examinations, the doctor looked dignified.
"the attending doctor called me to another office." Even though it has been 5 years ago, Liu Weidong still can not bear to recall the worried scene. "The doctor said," my wife's condition is not optimistic, it is nasopharyngeal carcinoma. " After hearing the doctor, Liu Weidong was stunned.
beat up the spirit, when Liu Weidong saw his wife, he gave her a white lie: "I comfort her, saying nothing. It's good to hit an anti-inflammatory needle and take some medicine."
returned home and settled in Li Shihua and Liu Weidong. Then he went to the next room and whispered to his sister who was a doctor in her hometown.
from her sister, Liu Weidong only learned more about how terrible the nasopharyngeal carcinoma is. "The survival time of early detection was only 5 years, and my wife had reached middle late stage. Even active treatment can only last two years. " Why is life so cruel? At last, the strong man could not restrain his grief and sobbed in a low voice.
Liu Weidong's phone was heard clearly by Li Shihua, who had not yet fallen asleep. Knowing that he had a serious illness, the optimistic Li Shihua did not collapse, and went back to comfort her husband: "I still have a lot of things that I haven't finished and can't go for a moment."
life and death, the husband selling red bean cake is her greatest wealth
nasopharyngeal cancer is a malignant tumor, and fierce, if not timely treatment, the consequences are unthinkable. But the biggest problem with Liu Weidong's husband and wife is that there is no money in the family.
at this time, someone told Liu Weidong, if Li Shihua in Xiangtan treatment, medical expense reimbursement ratio is relatively high, if to Changsha treatment, at most only half of the reimbursement.
left to think about it, Liu Weidong finally decided to send Li Shihua to Hunan cancer hospital. "Do not say that it can still be reimbursed, even if there is no money to reimburse, I will send her to the best hospital and find the best doctor. This is my wife's life, that is the hope of our family! "
fortunately, in Hunan Cancer Hospital, Li Shihua's condition was controlled, and the cancer cells did not metastases. Half a year later, Li Shihua was discharged home to rest. One day, Li Shihua consulted with her husband. She wanted to apply to the school. At first, Liu Weidong resolutely disagreed. He was worried that his wife could not afford to toss. But Li Shihua is very obstinate: "people say that half of the cancer patients are scared to death, but for me, it is the best treatment to give students a class."
can't convince his wife. Liu Weidong has to agree.
in the second half of 2009, Li Shihua went back to the podium. Knowing that Li Shihua was sick and insisted on returning to the classroom, the students were very moved. Since Li Shihua's neck was burned, his neck was burned, his eyesight and his hearing were greatly affected, she always had a few special openers when she was given a class to a new student: "I was sick, I had a sore throat, so I had little sound; I couldn't hear the ears too." Please forgive me. "
Li Shihua is now a class two student of class 2010 International Economics and trade at the Xiangtan University, speaking of Li Shi Hua, the teacher is always full of feelings: "the students most listen to her, she is our most respected teacher." Wang Xitong, the head of the class, also said that Mr. Li, though not good, still cares about every student in the class. The grade of class she brought is well, the rate of passing four is 90.4%, the rate of pass six is 60%, and the grade of professional class is also in the front of the college. A piece of material provided by the Propaganda Department of Xiangtan University shows that although Li Shihua has been ill these years, he has published more than 10 academic papers. Tan Yanzhi, a professor at the business school, mentioned this unyielding colleague when he mentioned it.
Li Shihua owes all his achievements to her husband Liu Weidong.
"I am not a common trouble." Li Shihua said that after illness, she had to pay attention to food, clothing and shelter. "I can't get oil fumes, I can only eat vegetables, and I am very particular about cooking methods. I can only boil water. I want to let water first and then fire. My husband cooked the meal strictly according to the doctor's instructions. Although the dishes produced were not very delicious, he Dun accompanied me to those dishes, and quipped that it was a nutritious meal. However, Liu Weidong is most entangled in the family's economic situation. In order to control the disease, Li Shihua must take medicine every day, these drugs are very expensive. And weak Li Shihua almost can not do without Liu Weidong's care, he simply can not get out to earn money.
in order to alleviate the pressure, Liu Weidong thought a lot of ways. Li Shihua's Xiangtan University business school leadership office needs to find someone to clean up 360 yuan a month, which was originally a work study program for students. The self - respecting Liu Weidong had a bite of his teeth. "That's money for my wife. I can earn a point." Then, Liu Weidong also sold spicy hot water near Xiangtan University. Later, he saw students like to eat red bean cakes. Liu Weidong began to learn to make red bean cakes and set up a stall.
in this way, the wife taught and educated people on the podium, and her husband took care of her life with the greatest love in the place where she could turn around.
"I cried many times about his efforts." Li Shihua said that when she was ill, she was always tested for life and death, but she never shed tears. But as soon as she remembered what her husband had suffered and what he had done for himself, she was always unable to restrain her tears. "If it were not for him, I could not live now, and I could not realize my dream."
"even though living in Liu Weidong and Li Shihua is so difficult, they are still strong in the face of difficulties." In December 9th, Zhao Meng, Vice Minister of Propaganda Department of Xiangtan University, told reporters today, "once someone offered to donate to them, but they were turned down. They say they have to feed themselves. This indomitable, life and death emotion also brings us more positive energy.
"maybe we are difficult compared with some people, but there are always more difficult people in our society." We just want to live on our own. " When he said this, Liu Weidong, who sold the red bean cake, was still covered with flour and his face was full of vicissitudes, but his tone was firm.