My father accompanied my daughter to the same university and scored 26 points higher than her daughter.
source: Jingchu network (Wuhan)
Jiangcheng College of China University of Geosciences ushered in a pair of father and daughter freshmen: father 296 points, daughter test 270 They are all liberal arts, and all of them are accounting computerization specialties.
Jingchu Internet News: the college entrance examination this year has entered the end of the college entrance examination, China University of Geosciences Jiangcheng college ushered in a pair of father and daughter freshman: father test 296 points, daughter examination 270 points, all are liberal arts, all are accounting computerization specialized specialty.
Why did the father accompany her daughter in the college entrance examination? Yesterday, the reporter interviewed the father and daughter. Father surname Su, 43 years old, said that his daughter was rebellious. He was at ease and was forced to escort all the way. Her daughter was 16 years old. She said her father had not given her enough room for growth. She always imposed her ideas on her and did not know how to let her go. Now she is to accompany her to college and make her feel stressful.
Where does the daughter go to?
"daughter is cute and cute, but more rebellious." Mr. Su said he was from Gongan County and brought his family to the Han Dynasty in 1993. In the past more than 10 years, where her daughter went to school, he had driven the restaurant to where she was.
primary school first grade, the daughter in Hankou Kaohsiung Road near the school, very moving, also do not listen, every day to finish the restaurant work, he should do her homework for her. In grade two, when his daughter transferred to the Youth Palace elementary school, he contracted a cafeteria near the school, and also stared at her daughter's learning situation. Until the five grade of primary school, the daughter's academic record is the top three in the class.
in grade five, her daughter was interested in football, learning to play football in the Wuhan Youth Palace, and then in a match by the coach of the third middle school women's football team of Wu Jiashan, who jumped into the junior high school in the school and then entered Wu Jiashan high school as a sports specialty student.
Mr. Su immediately opened the restaurant to Wu Jiashan. During his summer vacation before his junior high school, he taught the six grade course in 2 months. After his daughter went to high school, he felt a little tired. He bought information and taught his daughter.
"I take part in the college entrance examination, in order to encourage her to study hard." Mr. Su said that under his words and deeds, his daughter's rebellion had been restrained and his study was more serious.
has also given up the final choice of insisting on
Mr. Su said that in the past more than 10 years, he also felt that this way was not a way. He had wanted to let go. In the first semester of the first semester, he did not manage his daughter's studies. As a result, her performance plummeted, so he had to re read the "magic spell" and her daughter's performance improved.
high school last semester, he tried to let go, and his daughter's performance slipped again. In the last semester of senior second, he returned to his home in Gongan County for a month, and his daughter often skipped the Internet. He brought her back to his home, tutoring at home, during the period and at the end of the period. In the second semester of the second semester, his daughter did not want to go to school again. He went to work in Beijing by himself. After a few months, he couldn't leave his daughter's care and care. He left Beijing back to the Han Dynasty, accompanied his daughter to start the sprint before the College entrance examination.
"I can't afford to wait until she reaches the age of 18, and I really don't care about her." Mr. Su said that his family and friends have repeatedly advised him not to be in charge of her daughter again, but he worried that his daughter would walk on the road, and his father's responsibility kept him down.
"if she is obedient, I should have a better development in catering." Looking back on his reading years, Mr. Su said that he had given up his pursuit and life for his daughter. He has hardly seen TV in more than 10 years.
"I didn't go to university, and this time I was able to pass the exam. Apart from accompanying my daughter, it was my dream of University. But I haven't finally decided whether to be true. In addition, I heard that after entering the school, I can adjust my major. I want to readjust civil engineering so as to prepare for civil engineering in the future. He said.
expert advice raises children's independent
"rebellious children we see more, but this is not entirely a child's cause." Mr. Han, the coach of the women's football team at Wu Jiashan third middle school in Dongxihu, said that Mr. Su's daughter began to be more clever and later rebellious. It may be related to the high expectations of her parents and too much pressure on her.
Mr. Su's daughter said, "I'm very grateful to dad for his company for more than a decade, and I know he has paid for me a lot, but I have rejected his educational methods. Since I was young, I wanted to be independent, but he didn't give me space. Now I have to go to college with me. He should listen more to my thoughts and let go when I let go. "
"this father is great." Ye Xianfa, a professor at the school of education at Hubei University, said that in the case of more rebellious daughter and more social temptation, he was able to give up his own pursuit and guide the children to complete their studies.
, however, he also said that the so-called rebellion is actually that the child's opinion is not satisfied, not necessarily wrong. Parents should cultivate their independence from childhood and learn to listen to their voices instead of simply putting their values on them. At the moment of the widespread use of scores on heroes, the concept of talent has a lot of limitations. Parents, schools and society should reflect on them and give children more space to grow. In this way, a diversified talent can be cultivated.