professor Liu Chenglian site The experience of educating children
Lu net March 15th (reporter Sun Jie), in order to make a good test for the children, many parents try to use various prizes to seduce their children. I do not know, this is harmful to the child. Liu Chenglian, a famous family education instructor, warned parents that one day they would lose their interest in learning.
"how to make children learn and learn autonomously" is a headache for many parents. This afternoon, Ji'nan famous elementary school invited the family education to refer to the tutor, the best seller, "six years with the child" by the author, Professor Liu Chenglian, who held a lecture on "how to help the children to learn" for their parents. In the lecture, Professor Liu Chenglian introduced experience to parents on how to make children self-conscious and independent in learning, how to cultivate their children's good habits of learning, and how parents should guide their children to study correctly.
when talking about the usual way of educating children, parents began to talk freely. Many parents say that in order to let their children study hard and give good results in examinations, they often give their children various awards. Liu Chenglian said that this practice is not desirable, and even let the children lose the motivation to learn.
"when the external drive is greater than the internal drive, the child's interest may be gone." Liu Chenglian said that material rewards are limited in the end, and parents can not satisfy their children without restrictions. "The ability of parents is limited, not all things can afford, when the parents' reward is no longer a struggle for the children, or the expectations of the children, the children will slowly lose interest in learning."
how is that exactly how to educate and guide children? Liu Chenglian gives eight words, "parents should learn to believe, affirm, appreciate and encourage their children."
Liu Chenglian said, we should encourage more children. "Let the children realize that when they do the right thing, mom and dad will encourage me."
it is understood that the parents' lecture hall is a tradition of Ji'nan celebrities. Every semester, schools will invite educational experts to impart experience to parents. The responsible person of the school told the reporter that in the future, the primary school will continue to carry out the activities of the parents' big lecture hall, so that the parents can guide and educate the children in the right way.