Many children suffer from open school anxiety
Shandong commercial newspaper reporter Zhang Wenwen
"the thought of starting school immediately, the mood becomes very bad, always feel that the holiday is too fast, it has not been enjoyed." It's going to end. " This weekend, the provincial and municipal primary and secondary schools have reported to school one after another. The reporter has learned that whenever this time comes, many children will suffer from "school anxiety disorder". Education experts say parents should help their children adjust their work and rest time, especially the day before the first day of school. Children should not be too crazy to play, and they should rest early.
parents often remind them to "frighten" children. "The three month after school is too critical. Now it's hard to do it, and so on. This winter holiday, my mother always countdown to him from time to time, the number of words appeared more frequently, which makes Xiao Zhang pressure very much. "To think about the beginning of the test, I have a headache, my heart is very contradictory, I want to let the time go faster, hurry up the college entrance examination; you can see some questions that will not be done, and want to make time stagnant, try to review it as much as possible." Xiao Zhang said. Like Xiao Zhang, there are many children suffering from "school anxiety disorder". From kindergarten to high school, students from different schools always feel that they have not had enough holidays. Ji'nan City dike road primary school Wang Suqin teacher said that the emotional performance is more prominent, there are two types of students, a class of excellent students, good personality, the pursuit of perfect students, teachers, parents will have higher expectations of their parents, worried that they can not finish, students are very easy to tense, worry about. Another group is "underachievers", whose academic achievements are not ideal enough to be afraid of meeting their teachers, resulting in inferiority complex.
should guide more memories of school fun. For this reason, Wang Suqin suggested that the correct guidance of parents will play a great role before school begins. Parents should try to guide them into admission before starting school. For example, help the child to sort out the bag, check the homework, and pack the book with the child. After the child's mood swings, it is necessary to sit down and communicate with the child, not the accusation. "You can recollect the interesting things in school with your children, and think about the situation when teachers are praised." Wang Suqin said. In addition, the reporter learned that, because of this year's primary and secondary school day is the Lantern Festival, the provincial boarding school will not be reported in advance, but tomorrow will be reported, the school "together", let the children and parents reunion. However, the reporter here reminding the festival will make the children very excited, especially some parents will take their children out to see the lantern in the evening, because second days to go to school early, after watching the lantern as early as possible.