"New good dad" standard: to talk with children "love"
daily life daily Author: Annan
from traditional dad to "new good dad", we have experienced a delicate and difficult evolution. Our attention to our father seems never to be as strong as it is now. The era of "new good dad" is coming quietly. Let's take a look at the characteristics of the new generation of fathers.
feature 1: "talk and love" with children
with traditional dad, many people will think of the man who has always used the silence to express his deep father's love in Zhu Ziqing's back. In today's era of advocating expression and communication, for "new good dad", "son, I love you!" But you can blurt out.
feature two: good at soft and soft
traditional father is almost the pronoun of authority, while "new good dad" is good at softness and softness. They have a very male side, but they can communicate with the children equally; when the children violate the rules, they will stick to the end, not to speak, but they do not use violent force to solve the problem. Compared with traditional fathers, "new fathers" are more temperate. They can make their children feel strong and soft at the same time.
feature three: the kitchen
this was an important standard for men to choose a spouse, and now it is not a "new father". Like the "man's kitchen, absolutely new fashion" in the daily diet, the kitchen is no longer the mother's absolute territory, "who has the time to do it", or "the mother takes care of the children, the husband makes the food" more and more common. However, for those men who are determined to be the fashion leader, even home clothes are absolutely careless. So, a group of new good fathers wearing fashionable aprons appeared.
feature four: talk about children, no longer cover up
in the old people's traditional ideas, if you push off the meal after work is to go home with the child, it's sure to be laughed at by the male colleagues: too bad! However, in the nursery environment gradually improved today, in the nursery lecture class, father's figure also appears more and more. Some fathers will also engage in a "new good father" party for the discussion of child care topics.