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a "tiger mother war song", roar the American education circle, and also caused the deep thought and hot discussion of the domestic experts and scholars and the parents. It is true that the "tiger mother" way is not a good model, and a mother's way of teaching should not be the typical representative of "Chinese style education", as the American media says. But this controversy about children's growth and happiness has given us an opportunity to review the history of Chinese family education and review the wisdom of "mother's son's wisdom". Let's go into history in the narration of experts, and approach the Chinese mother who praises future generations. Editor
the importance of family education. This is the tradition of China, the history of the examination and countless stories. Among them, the story of the mother's education for the children is the most vivid and profound. The fine story of many "godmother" stories is still inspiring for today's education.
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like Meng Meng, the mother of the famous Eastern Jin Tao Kan also used textile teaching to cherish time and study hard. She asked Xiao Tao to observe the shuttles of the weave, and the eight words of "the time of time and the sun and the moon" were printed in the heart of Tao Kan. In addition, people in the Song Dynasty praised Ou Yangxiu for his mother's painting, and for his mother, Yuan's mother, who never punished children.
Mao Dun, a famous writer, wrote a poem of "Eighty self recalling" on the eighty birthday. He recalls the meticulous cultivation of his mother in childhood: "... There is no loss, little dash is in and out. Class children attack poetry history, at the end of the year, diligent performance ", tell oneself hours play, mother is angry, but also can not bear to beat and scold, but persuade education, guidance. The neighbour had a rather low opinion that she was too "palliative" to the child. Her mother was puzzled at the same time. But after careful reflection, she strengthened her education method: "as long as we do a good job in education, children occasionally play with fun." This is in line with the wisdom of the old man who is temperate with severity and has a good command of learning.
comment: "knowledge changes fate". Mothers in ancient times attached great importance to promoting children's learning and tried their best to teach their children to read books. It is commendable that these mothers have a natural wisdom, not holding a stick at the time of teaching, but in a clever way of learning, reasoning, and emotionally.
[b][color=blue] />[b][color=blue] Gu Yanwu, a famous thinker, raised by her aunt. Gu Yanwu was intelligent and often praised and grew proud. After his aunt's awareness, he was asked to recite and explain the words "sell the orange". This is a fable essay, which reveals the decadent essence of dignitaries by means of figurative metaphors. Gu Yanwu explained clearly. "What else does it mean?" My aunt asked. Gu Yanwu has no words to say. "Does the satire of the article not be very instructive to ordinary people? If you learn a little bit, you will be proud of yourself and be satisfied with your knowledge. Gu Yanwu heard a great deal of embarrassment and was determined to enter Germany and diligently cultivate himself.
when they were ten years old, the mother sent him to Nanyang, Henan to study. Before he left, he made a thick quilt for his son. The temperature in Nanyang is high, so there is no need for thick quilt. Meng Zongmu said, "my son is young and ignorant, he doesn't know how to get along with his friends, he will not help others. I think there are bound to be those who are short of clothes and less in school friends. I want him to lay a quilt with those poor families. In this way, we can "listen to each other and listen to each other", which is well influenced and nurtured. In the utterance of good intentions, plain and brilliant wisdom flashes.
again, for example, the Mencius's mother's three migration is the prevention of the influence of the environment on the character of the person; the mother of the mother in the spring and Autumn period of the spring and Autumn period of the spring and Autumn period of the spring and Autumn period, the mother of Jiang and the Eastern Han Fan Pang Pang mother's teaching son, and Yue Fei's mother prickly word "faithful to the country" and so on, all reflected the noble and noble virtues.
comment: compared with relearning Chongwen, mothers of all ages paid more attention to the cultivation of children's character. They regard good behavior norms and excellent qualities as the essence of being human, and transmit them to children's minds skillfully.
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in addition, the mother of Tao Kan was impoverished and retired to persuade the son to be honest. In the Tang Dynasty, the mother of the Tang Dynasty was in poor family and friends, the teaching son encouraged himself, the mother of the mausoleum at the end of the Qin Dynasty insisted on the justice of the Godson. Zhao Baomu in the East Han Dynasty defended the country with the death of the son, and all played a very good educational effect.
comment: strict self discipline and high regard for example is a good recipe for Chinese mothers to educate their children. In ancient society, women lived at the bottom of social life, forming such noble sentiments as hard work, diligent and simple, strict with the law, lenient with people, and no admiration of fame and wealth. The traditional virtues embodied in Chinese mothers have always been the most valuable educational resources for their children's education.