parents are worried that their children are only one born and self - selfish. But, in this process, it may hurt the child's young mind!
1, forcing baby to share
when Mommy takes the toy of baby's hand to the other baby, what will it feel about? Assuming you are in the office, the boss suddenly snatches your laptop. And give it to another colleague, will you be grateful to your boss and be willing to share it with your colleagues? The same reason, it's also a harm to force the baby to share his things with a small partner.
2, big should let small
baby always want to match the bigger baby. For example, when the elder sister is playing with the ball, the little brother next to her must be playing with a ball. No matter what the elder sister holds in her hand, even if the baby is not interested in anything at all, he will ask for the same thing to be put in his hand. Most Mommy may warn her sister to give her things to her brother. In fact, this is unfair. If this little sister is a sensitive child, she will doubt her parents' love for her, and her heart will be hurt. And little babies will not learn to share skills in such favors.
3, forcing baby to play
forcing baby to play is one of the most common strategies parents teach babies to share, but little babies are often eager to take them back when other babies just get their toys. For the baby under 3, because he has not completely established the concept of time, it is still not a good way to effectively solve the baby dispute.
4, steal the baby's toy
when the baby is in dispute because of the toy, do not steal a baby's toy to another crying baby. This is the way Mommy conveys some wrong idea to baby, it makes baby feel that it can achieve the goal as long as it cries, and it can solve the problem as long as it is started, so the negative effect of this way is very big.