How can the poor parents be placed?

< - M - > < a class = "postlink" href = "http://news.e23.cn/jnnews/2018-09-04/2018090400057.html" > http://news.e23.cn/jnnews/2018-09-04/2018090400057.html < - - M - > Shun. Jinan Times author: Xia Xiong Fei every child landed on his own, not even before he was conceived in October. The weakness of the mother, the weakness of love. Once we enter the socialized access to education, we are all pitied with parents. How to place this deep love and anxiety? The most fundamental thing is to work with schools to build a fairer education environment, so that children can grow up independently and freely. Br Kindergarten Parents group rules is not appropriate? On Monday, Yu's little daughter will go to kindergarten classes. Recently, the kindergarten issued nine group rules for the parents of children who are going to attend kindergarten classes. Among them: do not collect praise, buy goods or solicit tickets and other information to avoid a large number of flattery in the Wechat crowd flattery behavior. (Peninsula Morning Post, September 3) In the age of mobile Internet, parents'Wechat groups have played a positive role in promoting home-school communication and facilitated teachers' work. But at the same time, the phenomenon of parents'taste change and alienation is becoming more and more serious, and the negative effect is becoming increasingly prominent, which has aroused the disgust and worry of many teachers and parents. "Br /> kindergartens set rules for parents in groups. Although it is unavoidable to feel that the superiors are in a high position to issue instructions to the subordinates, on the whole, the kindergartens provide a reference standard for parents and teachers to make speeches in the parent group, draw a bottom line and a red line for parents and teachers to act willfully in the group. Words and deeds are bound. In this way, parents will be pulled back to assume the track of communication function between home and school, in essence, parents back to the original intention of education. (Zhang Limei) Primary School Style Seeking Concern How to Relieve? Today begins school, and has since entered the lake. On the first day of school, a parents in Tianjin exposed their children's backs in their circle of friends. In order to help their children stand out, parents have tried their best to get a good impression and attention from their teachers. Some volunteer to help teachers with home decoration design, test driving of famous cars, publishing papers and so on. Others take pains to observe teachers and carefully select gifts. (China Youth Daily, September 3) At the moment when the etiquette of many people is not surprising, people are familiar with the hidden rules of society, schools as a microcosm of the larger society, naturally can not avoid vulgarity. In fact, while parents are anxious about what and how to give gifts, teachers may also have a headache about how to refuse them. The relief style requires more empathic thinking between teachers and parents and more consideration from the other side's point of view. For teachers, to fully understand the parents'anxiety, any normal teaching management, may be overinterpreted in the parents' hearts, to understand the teacher's good or bad signals for their children. In this regard, schools and teachers should strengthen the disclosure of information, in the selection of class cadres, the selection of three good students and other aspects of the whole process of public supervision, to eliminate the information asymmetry of parents, so that parents correctly look at avoid misunderstanding. For parents, it is also necessary to understand the teacher's difficulty. The school is different from the family, the child in the home can be the apple of the eye, set the whole family pet in one, in the school teacher to take care of the whole class of children, can not be like the parents of all kinds of care. Instead of falling into an endless gift-giving contest and trying to tilt the teacher's balance toward their children, it is better to let the campus return to a pure land and give all children a fair learning and growth environment. (Zhang Chunyi) Education Bureau to announce is it necessary? Recently, Zhangshu City Education Bureau issued a "Notice on Further Standardization of Student Seat Arrangement Work". According to the height of the students as the main basis, combined with students'gender factors, audio-visual status and other comprehensive considerations, adopt the method of alternating longitude and latitude dynamic ranking of the students in each row is basically consistent in the shape of a parabolic line. amp; hellip. amp; hellip for this regulation, parents said that this is in the hands-on teacher seating, there are teachers' rules. This is clearly a distrust of teachers. (Jiangnan Metropolitan Daily, September 3) The new regulations are really meant to ensure educational equity, and it is not too much to call them the sunshine seating regulations. But if we use a metaphor to describe the seating arrangement, I think it is more appropriate to play Go, each piece of chess fall, the chess player should pay attention to the situation and overall situation, and the chessboard is ever-changing, can only see the opportunity to act, but now issued a notice, asking the chess player to follow the notification of the fall, is not it superfluous? We should know that compared with the contents of the notice, the actual seating arrangements have been varied, such as rolling seating, height seating, same-sex matching seating, self-discipline consciousness seating, free combination seating, random lottery seating, and so on, and these are the crystallization of the wisdom of teachers'education, and so far there is no end to them. A good seating arrangement. The development of
education certainly needs to be institutionalized, and teachers'teaching certainly needs to be standardized. But teachers, as preachers and puzzlers, should also be given sufficient discretion. At least, teachers' words and deeds should not be examined with malicious eyes. Otherwise, even the basic trust and space are not available, and there is no talk about teachers'respect. Yan? How is education innovative? (Liu Sunheng) Six-piece set of college admission rationality or spoil? Recently the major colleges and universities have opened. As the Post-00 group enters university life a year, these young people who grow up in the new century are prepared for what? What kind of consumption concept? Recently, a reporter visited major digital cities in Chengdu, sales staff revealed that the peak day can sell more than 30 computers. Computers, mobile phones, tablets, the old three school-opening standard adds digital cameras, Bluetooth headphones, smart watches, six complete at least 30,000 yuan. (Tianfu Morning Post, September 3) The old three have been upgraded to six pieces, which is due to the development of the times. Consumer demand is rising as social progress is inevitable. However, the excessive prosperity of the school economy, there are also mutual comparison, irrational consumption, business marketing to fuel the waves and other issues. Especially for the freshmen who have just entered the University hall, the first lesson of rational consumption is particularly crucial. It's certainly a sign of love that parents try their best to satisfy their children's consumer needs, but sometimes spoiling can do even more harm. No swollen face, guide children to learn rational consumption, apparently than unreasonable consumption requirements blindly satisfied, can benefit children for life.
Of course, it's not just parents'business to help children learn the first lesson of rational spending, nor should colleges and universities stand by. It is also a good deed to attach relevant contents to the admission notice, or to guide the freshmen to consume rationally in the opening season, and to cooperate with their families and schools.