2018-04-21 23:15:40
2018-04-21 23:15:40
each child is just a white paper, and the education in the family will be very influential. Children。 If you often encourage and support children, the child will become more confident and the success rate of doing things will be higher and higher. But if parents often abuse their children, it will make their children feel inferior and be afraid to do anything. The following five sentences, if parents often tell their children, will make their children more confident and smart.
1, why?
sometimes parents need to play dumb. Even if you know what this is, you can still ask the child, why? At this time, the child will explain to you, one can exercise the thinking ability of the child, the second child will feel that he has a sense of achievement, and then something will like to share with their parents. If the child happens to ask a question you don't know, parents don't escape from being free to answer, parents can tell the child directly, I don't know, or do we go to find the answer together? This will bring a good habit to children, that is, when they do not know something, they will not escape and will find the answer.
two, for the first time, everyone is the same.
when a child is not able to summon up the courage to try a thing and the result is not good, parents must not strike the child. The reverse example: "I know you can't do it well, you don't believe it." "ha ha, look, I said you can't" and so on. These words may just be inadvertently exportation, but it has a big impact on children. Parents should encourage their children. For the first time, it is normal to have no experience and fail to do well. Failure is the mother of success. In this way, the child will continue to try second times, so as to succeed.