The "mother fight" in the second child era: from being overly concerned to overly neglected
China Youth Daily
no one noticed a 5 year old girl who was not so fond of laughing at the beginning of the day. A little trifle will make her angry, screaming or hysterically crying. Even comforting words are like drops of oil on the fire, causing her anger to rage fiercely. It was not until recently that she had spit out the food that had just been eaten, and she was dizzy and giddy all day, and there were many colorful circles in front of her, and the adults realized that the child might be ill.
gave birth to two babies who had just left their confinement for a long time, so they had to take care of the problem. After more than a month's examination, both mother and daughter finally stood in front of sun Ling, director of the Tianjin Anding Hospital adolescent psychology department, and had been diagnosed with a mild compatriot competition.
in recent years, more and more children have come to hospital for their emotional and psychological problems due to the birth of their siblings. Sun Ling said that the child's problem was rooted in family education. She suggested parents: understanding children is more important than preaching.
mom, I like you to take me to the hospital
leisurely once was the only princess in the family, the whole family was around her. Until the beginning of this year, mother gave birth to her little sister, and suddenly failed to defend herself. In order to take care of the two treasures, my mother took the two treasures into the grandmother's house to sit on the moon, and then stayed with her grandparents. Since the two distances are far away, dad drives every weekend to see her mother and sister, for fear of having a rest and just leave every time.
, however, a week after the birth of her sister, grandma began to complain to YYu every day on the phone: more and more strange temper, often indescribable, crying, may be a moods. However, the situation became more and more intense, and it became more and more illusions. At first she shouted headaches, dizziness, and later said that all kinds of illusions of patterns and colors were running out of front of her. Grandpa and grandma were frightened and felt that their child must be ill.
yo yo came out of the moon and took a leisurely visit to the doctor. On the one hand, the child is small and the expression is not clear; on the other hand, the causes of dizziness are often very complicated.
in order to eliminate the functional abnormalities of the organs, the family ran all over the Tianjin city's eye, ear, nose hospital, the ophthalmology hospital ran 3 times, the items can be checked, what problems have not been checked out. In the Department of ENT, the doctor initially thought that the vestibule function of the child might be a problem causing vertigo, and the results showed that everything was normal, so it was suggested to check the ophthalmology. After repeated confirmation by ophthalmologists, it is suggested that they go to the Department of neurology to see if there are any problems with the brain.
do everything possible to hang up the children's Hospital neurology expert number, the doctor suggested that MRI for further examination. I saw the little leisurely lie on the big nuclear magnetic resonance instrument. I never expected that the cowardly long but unusually fit. Every time she was in the hospital, she always behaved well and was very different from her at home.
the process of seeing a doctor is full of difficulties, and the pediatrics in all the major hospitals have always been overcrowded. Every time you see a disease, 3 adults often need to be sent together. For more than a month, the whole family is stuck in the endless running of hospitals, queues, registration, medical care, and so on. For YYu, the most torturous thing is to wait for the results to be checked, and the heartbeat is going to break through the throat, trying to know where the child is wrong and especially afraid of finding out what's wrong.
to her surprise, as she queued up to wait for the results, she suddenly raised her head and said, mom, I like you to take me to the hospital.