Luka picture book reading today,
many parents will encounter such a scene: It will soon be crying and rolling, making people have a headache.
it has been said that the child has been tired of crying himself. Some people say that it is necessary to punish the children immediately. Some people say that they should be patient to persuade the child to cross the low tide and so on.
[b] how do children manage to behave when they are in a mood? How does [/b] train children to express their emotions correctly? This is a topic that every parent wants to know and often fails to understand.
the latest Hollywood star dad, in spite of his status as a star, has posted a picture of her daughter crying out of control in the supermarket.
the result of his mood has attracted 20 million netizens according to the praise and more than 4 million times to share. His idea of parenting is admirable, inspiring more than 8 thousand young parents to discuss the message enthusiastically.
the 30 generation's star dad is Justin Baldoni Justin Baldoni in California. He plays multiple roles in film and television actors, directors, music producers and former high school football stars, but his favorite identity is the father of two children.
[b]'s unsurprised emotional management won the applause, [/b]
the wife took this embarrassing picture, or, in all homes, there was a common nightmare for the parents of a capricious child: screaming and screaming in public places!
but the ordinary picture has two extraordinary men looking at it calmly, [b] is not moving, no accusation, no anger, no adults quarreling with each other. [/b]
one is Dad, one is Grandpa, and the two men are not so angry that they hold up the out of control child and run out of shame. Instead, they looked at the child with compassion, how to face her feelings. [b] they quietly quit the stage and turned themselves into a spectator, letting children deal with their emotional problems themselves. When the child could not control her irritability, her father and grandpa decided to give her time to let her decide how long and how long the emotional drama would last. [/b]
Justin said, "
" we quietly watched this lovely and pure soul of the wild and pure and tried to perform this scene.
"she has our unconditional love, we are willing to give her everything, but she has to face her own emotions.
"I can imagine that, at her age, I also performed countless times of crying like she did now.
"my dad has taught me a lot, one of which is a shame for me to learn to face, and that's Being comfortable in the uncomfortable!
"from small to large, I always see my father in danger and face everything in life." No parents are perfect, but my father taught me that children should have their own ideas and not to think about others.
"my father always let me face my emotions. No matter in private or public occasions, I have never seen him thundering at me: 'don't cry! You really make me lose face!
"until recently, I realized that such emotional upbringing had a great impact on the development of my emotional personality.
"the world is very busy, each child faces so many different messages every day, they will be at a loss, and do not know how to adjust their words and deeds in a timely manner, so they can not always keep their knowledge and good luck as the adults expect. They often get angry because they do not know how to deal with their nameless fire.
"so I recalled my father's tolerance and learned to give my crying daughter the same tolerance, let her know that she could express her emotions, but she had to learn to understand and control her emotions.
"I don't feel ashamed or ashamed to want to leave at once. Let's give the child more patience and understanding. If we are adults, we can learn to calm and face their emotions, and to give ourselves patience to digest any negative emotions. We can learn to be more relaxed, cry and laugh, and we can face life more happily. What the world needs now is more understanding and less opposition.