source: Qianjiang Evening Newspaper palm client
"two children have taken milk now, have been criticized and put up 5 yuan, I'm sorry. " In the past two days, a message was shared in WeChat's circle of friends.
"we can understand this behavior of a child, but the practice of the child's mother is worth a little praise, but we are all moved, and this is the best example of educating children." Yesterday, Aunt Chen of Zhuji told the warm story behind the message.
Aunt Chen lives in the Tianma Garden District of Jiyang street in Zhuji. She booked two bags of milk, a pair of twin grandchildren and one bag. Ms. Chen ordered the milkman to put milk into her home newspaper box because of the breakage of the milk box. In the afternoon of April 9th, Aunt Chen went downstairs to pick up the newspaper as usual and picked up the milk. But she found that there was no milk in the letter box. "My family has been ordering milk for several years. It has never been missing before. This time it is thought that the milk has arrived." Aunt Chen said.
on the second day of the afternoon, Aunt Chen went to the newspaper again and found that there were two bags of fresh milk in the letter box, a small note and 5 1 yuan coins. "The small notes are folded neatly, and I slowly open them and write a line of characters inside, which is only 24 words in Arabia figures, but the content is moving." Aunt Chen said. At this point, she realized why the milk was missing the day before.
that evening, after her daughter was off duty, Aunt Chen made a clean breast of the incident and praised the mother's practice. "Two bags of milk, add up to less than 5 yuan, value little, but the mother found the child's behavior, can be explained and apologized in this way, moved more than praise." Aunt Chen's daughter, Ms. Du said, "in fact, we have a room number in the letter box, the mother can find us, but she may not want to hurt the child's self-esteem, not directly to find us, and choose this euphemism and sincere way."
looking at the message, Mrs. Du told the twins about the way of doing things on the spot and took photos to his WeChat friends circle. Not only that, Ms. Du is still inquiring in the community, hoping to find this mother. Living in the same neighborhood, she wanted to know each other and explore ways to educate children. Unfortunately, because the residential area is an open old district, there are no monitoring facilities around the letter box, so she can't find each other for a moment.
Xu Liqing, director and researcher of the center for education development research at Zhejiang Wanli University, said 24 words on the message pass, passing three layers: one is to admit that the child has taken the milk, and the parents have criticized the child for the wrong behavior; the two is to place 5 coins, compensate for the loss of milk, and three to sincerely apologize.
every child's growth and family education are inseparable. Parents' words and deeds are very important. Children are bound to make minor mistakes in their growth process, but parents should not take the idea that "evil is small and do it" and let it go. From this case, we can see that the mother attaches importance to her children's education, and we can see that the sincere character of the mother is indeed praiseworthy.