source: Shun Network - Ji'nan times
"I carry bricks on my shoulders, there is no way to hold you and I put down the bricks, there is no way to keep you." This sentence circulated on the Internet is used to describe children left behind and their parents.
summer, little Superman alone in the home to study, he is very eager for father and mother to accompany him more. Reporter Huang Zhongming took
August 4th evening, the afterheat was not scattered, the father of 12 year old Chiang Zhuang Zhuang's father Jiang Xiaowei Khan was drenched in the new store near the intersection of the garden road and garden. The original restaurant, because of the violation, was easy to find a new position, "the position is still far away from the child."
at the same time, 15 kilometers away from the beautiful garden, 11 year old boy Liu Chaofan is eating with his parents, for the usual "foster" in his grandfather's home, this is a rare reunion meal.
at a construction site on the Second Ring Road, Zhang Haoran, a 10 year old father, has just finished his day's work, riding home to his home.
there are many young children like Jiang Zhuangzhuang and Liu Chaofan. Their parents come to the city, and they come with them, but they are again "cold" in a house in the city by busy parents.
is still a "foster"
38 road bus station of oil Zhao Zhuang, which is the most desirable place for Chiang Zhuang Zhuang. From here, you can get to the restaurant that parents run, although he is going to spend nearly 1 hours on the road.
this summer, however, this situation has been broken. The restaurant that was operated was demolished, and Jiang Xiaowei, his father, ran around to find out a new shop. When the old shop was demolished and the new store opened, the couple were more busy than usual on this summer vacation. They could only "throw" their child Jiang Zhuangzhuang to their grandmother.
in the evening of July 27th, there was a cool rain in the shower, through the narrow streets of oil Zhao Zhuang, the reporter found a house rented by Jiang Zhuangzhuang's grandmother's house, and the Zhuang was reading a book at home. The room was dim and rained on the dilapidated windows. Only the commendation on the wall made the dim room bright.
when Chiang Zhuang Zhuang was reading at home, Liu Chaofan of Chu Zhuang primary school was having a rare reunion dinner with his parents. Liu Chaofan told reporters, I really look forward to rain every day, because grandpa and grandma back home, rainy days do not come back, so that he can be taken care of by parents. "Sometimes a week or even a month can not see a few times, the children are afraid." Li Xiuhuan, his mother, said that although the old man was very good to his children, he still wanted to stick to their husband and wife.
there is a aquarium in Liu Chaofan's family. Koi is very beautiful. He also has a spacious and bright study. Parents' efforts have not been wasted, and they have been able to provide children with a comfortable living environment. However, during this summer vacation, when the couple are busy, the child can only read books, write homework and feed fish at home, and then talk to the goldfish in the fish bowl.
compared to Jiang Zhuang and Liu Chaofan, Zhang Haoran is happy, because he can't see his parents in the daytime. "No matter how early she goes out, he will prepare breakfast, porridge, steamed bread, milk, eggs, and so on." He is very contented.
about half of the children in Jiang Zhuangzhuang's primary school are children of migrant workers. Many children are "two stay". Parents come to Ji'nan from other places. In order to live to earn money for their work, most of them do not take care of their children, but they can only leave the children to the grandmothers again. Some children said that they didn't go to Baotu Spring once with their parents until grade six.
no choice to stay behind
this summer vacation, Chiang Zhuang Zhuang went to his parents for a few days, but the husband and wife who came out early and late were only another place "left behind". Jiang Zhuangzhuang said, parents are very busy, go home early back late, every day give him money for him to buy some food, let him write homework at home, "usually buy meat steamed bun, cake and so on."
Jiang Xiaowei's restaurant is a small shop with a similar chicken pot. The new store has just opened up very busy: to go in in the morning, to get more than 11 in the evening, "to earn seven thousand or eight thousand dollars a month." He said that when he first came to Ji'nan from his hometown, he always thought about how to live a better life. He could only give the child to the elderly.
and recollection of the experience of fighting in Ji'nan, Liu Chaofan's mother almost had to tear. "We lived in a flat that had only 800 yuan a year, the rain even leaked. Sometimes for business or business, it was one or two months to leave Ji'nan, only to give the old to the care of the old." Liu Chaofan's father, Liu Denggao, was the first agent business of beer. Sometimes the couple went to the field to talk about business, one month or even a few months to come back. "I don't want the child to be a fake, especially a busy day."
Liu Denggao decided not to leave Ji'nan, and opened a barbecue shop near Kuang mountain, but he did not get idle, but it was a good business to provide a little better living conditions for the children.
precious companionship
is different from Jiang Zhuangzhuang's silent introversion. Zhang Hao Ran is quite cheerful. He said his father Zhang Jijun worked in the vicinity of the Second Ring Road, and his mother, Zhang Xia, worked as an environmental sanitation worker. Every morning, Zhang Xia had to go out to work at 4:00, and the task of transporting the child fell to Zhang Jijun.
but Zhang Jijun does not think this is a burden, but it feels like a kind of happiness. "Go out at 7 in the morning and come back at 5 p.m., the child is in the second primary school of the Sophora tree, which can be delivered, and can talk with the children all the way, what a good thing."
Zhang Xia said their old home was in the city. At first, the couple wanted to find a place to earn a lot of money in the city, but in the end they were still reluctant to separate from the children for a long time. "Money can be earned slowly, it can save some flowers, but not children." Although it can not give children rich life, but every day can be together, tired again feel value. "You see, this is a picture of a child painted for us." Zhang Xia said, his face was bliss.
the new house they now live just bought two months ago, although it was not a mansion, although some of the houses were helped by relatives and friends, but for a family of three, there was a place in the city. "As long as I am with my mom and Dad, I feel very happy." Zhang Haoran said.
parents' worries
children are actually learning to understand their parents' busyness. Liu Chaofan said that although they are young, they also know that their parents are very hardworking, so that they can not earn money to support their families. "Happy new year every year, both delicious, but also a family together every day, really looking forward to every new year."
Li Xiuhuan was very moved to hear the voice of his child. She told reporters that, in fact, she and her husband are also very afraid of busy making money to ignore the child, so now there is time to accompany the child, "all the time to go to Qingdao to see the sea, but so far not to help him to achieve this desire, very guilty."
Jiang Zhuangzhuang was silent, but when asked if he wanted to be his parents, he blurted out one word: Yes. He said he had never been to a playground, and spent most of his summer vacation in a house less than 40 square meters, reading and writing homework. He was used to such loneliness. "Do you usually play with your little friends?" the reporter asked him. "I don't like to go out to play, I just want to read books at home and watch computers." When he said this, he turned his head.
Jiang Zhuangzhuang's father said that he always wanted to earn more money, so that his children could live a better life, but he would be busy and busy without any time to accompany him. "It may be that we are busy, and the children rarely ask us to ask," he sighed. "What had happened to me in the past is not a few times in a month, and I was always busy making money. I was afraid that something would not be said to me after a child..."
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parents do not miss
these children are not in the city. These children are simple and kind in the city. They will not blame their parents. They are silent and introverted. Through their small body, you can feel a lonely, timid look in the mind. I can't hide the miss of my parents. Eleven two year old children should have been cheerful and carefree, but they wrapped up their hearts tightly. Zhu Jun, director of psycho Department of the
how many precious companions have you missed for your parents?