Summer Bill: someone gave 6 training classes to their children, and some of them gave their children free holidays.
Shun Network - Ji'nan times author: Chai Yingying
recently, the circle of friends is paid 30 thousand yuan a month for the children's summer vacation and Tai'an's best pupil for 2 days On the topic of the 9 training courses, many parents in Ji'nan secretly said that this is not news. Especially during the summer vacation, it has become a summer standard for many families to report all kinds of training courses to children. How much did the parents in Ji'nan spend the summer vacation? The reporter conducted an investigation.
swimming: 50 thousand
let the children open their eyes and spend more money on
the month of the five grade pupil is not free in this summer vacation. She still wants to go to the 6 courses as usual.
the expenses of the monthly summer training class, her mother is also a bit: a weekly piano lesson of 200 yuan each time, 120 yuan per week for vocal lessons, 5000 yuan per year in English, 24 for 1400 yuan composition, 8000 yuan in mathematics, and 1080 yuan for swimming class.Amp; hellip.am P; hellip average summer vacation time, training class cost about 6000 yuan.
these training classes, swimming and vocal music most of the month, and others are not very popular. In this regard, her mother said that she did not believe that what children learn would not be wasted. Mom also plans to take three trips to the four Nordic countries during the holidays, 10 days and 56000 yuan. In her circle of friends, there are many parents who are willing to burn money like her. In their view, it is worth spending more money in order to broaden their horizons.
Ms. Sun told her children the equestrian training class. She said that children love animals very much, riding horses can enhance communication between children and animals, foster children's self-confidence, and most importantly, children like it.
foster type: 10 thousand
no time to see the children, have to report more than two classes
the 5 year old boy has not come to primary school this year, this summer is not easy, also surrounded by various training classes: English class, piano lesson, taekwondo class, painting class. The overflow parents gave him a summer vacation class in private kindergarten, which lasted for two months.
calculating the summer vacation cost of overflowing is enough for the average wage earners to spend a month. The piano lesson is 120 yuan per Monday, 150 yuan per Monday for English class, 100 yuan per Monday for Taekwondo, 160 yuan for every Monday lesson, two months for summer vacation, and a total of 4240 yuan in total. In addition, the tuition fee of two months in private kindergartens is 3200 yuan, a total of 7440 yuan. In the previous period, with overflow and overflow to Shanghai to play a trip, cost about 4000 yuan, count up to a total of 11440 yuan, the overflow of the father said, although to the children to pay the class to spend money, but because the summer no one to see the children, also no way.
there are quite a few parents who have adopted children in the class. Mr. Zhao said, in addition to the usual training class, he gave children two more classes in the summer, in addition to the children to learn a special skill, but also taken into account his own work, no time to take care of the children.
the parents of the six grade boys in the school year work in Ji'nan. This summer vacation his parents gave him a training class early, mainly to study and write a composition, to do math problems, and to find a place for the children to learn in the summer. The father of the Miao said.
culture: 0 yuan
respect for children's will and his free vacation
the children of Mr. Liu's children in the summer after the summer school year four, and the practice of most parents, he chose to give the child a free summer, no training classes for children.
asked for his children's advice during the holiday, asked him if he would like to go to the training class, but the child said he hoped the summer vacation would be free. Mr. Liu said that he had previously reported two classes to children, one to learn Taekwondo and one to swim in a swimming pool below his own house, but this summer holiday, the children said they wanted to make their own arrangements and have a real holiday. The couple chose to respect their children's opinion.
Mr. Liu said, for the cram class such as culture class, he will not give the children a report, the four grade children, the important thing is to develop good learning habits, cultivate interest in learning, instead of making up a lesson to make the child a learning machine. He said that the child's academic performance is not bad, he did not want to force children to make their children weary of learning.
although he still wants to give children one or two sports training classes, more outdoor activities, but because the children do not want, they will not be forced.
reporter
does not spend how much children spend in the summer vacation. There are one thousand Hamlett in the eyes of one thousand readers in the eyes of happy or not, and there are one thousand reasons for the training class in the heart of the one thousand parents. Some parents say, the training class should not be demonized in fact, you or not, the training class is there, more and more parents have become rational, in front of the class will consult the children's opinion, if the child does conflict, parents often do not force.
parents have a lot of reasons to give children a training class, or because they expect Jackie Chan to look at her girl to become a Phoenix, or because the child likes to learn, or because the child is helpless to take care of it.Amp; hellip.amp; the hellip training class may not cultivate a piano genius or swimming champion, but it can be given to the child. A platform for cultivating interests and hobbies is something that will be heated and even Tucao, but it does need it.
parents can spend tens of thousands of dollars to give children a training class, but whether the training class should take more care of their children's interests, communicate with their children, respect the law of children's growth, and let the children really want to learn, after all, it is not sweet. Also don't bother to report the number of training classes to let the children not lose on the starting line, to put down the anxiety and pressure of the bottom of the heart, let the children lightly learn a favorite interest. After all, life is a long run, not a 100 meter sprint, for children, every day is a new starting line.