Blind comparisons will bring about many bad consequences and make your child lose self-confidence.
because many parents are now educating children in a bit of a misplaced, not a appreciative look at the advantage of a child, but a picky look for a child. What's wrong with it. The most frightening thing is to compare the weaknesses of others' children with their children's strengths, and the more they feel that their children are inferior to those of others.
your child is your child. It is not necessary to compare with the children of other people's family. As long as your child is better today than yesterday, you should congratulate him. This is the mother's appreciation for her children. The blind comparison of
will result in many bad consequences and make your child lose self-confidence. The child will mistakenly believe that his "disaster" is brought by his partner. He will not only produce a desire to learn from his partner, but he will bear the revenge, and will refuse to learn from others in his future life.
, a respected Czech educator Copernicus in the history of education, said: "we should respect our children as we respect God." The most essential need in human nature is the desire to be appreciated. As far as spiritual life is concerned, every young child seems to have come to the world for appreciation. No one is alive for being scolded.
do not say the underage children, that is, our adults, who are willing to work with their own leaders, to appreciate their colleagues, who do not want to pick up their eyes all day, and work with those who are dissatisfied with the dissatisfaction.
children are different from adults. Adults are not appreciated in this unit, do not work well, can be changed to another unit to work, and children are not appreciated by their parents, there will be no place to go.
so learning to appreciate should be the motto of every parent.
"even if all people at the end of the world look down on our children, the parents should all appreciate him, embrace him, praise him, praise him, and be proud of them, and this is the gift of every child." This is a mystery that a deaf child's father discovered on the way to change his daughter's fate.
we are long and have no reason to speak to the children, because the path of children's growth is like a stadium. How eager their parents are to find their own flashes and cheer for themselves, even if they fall for one thousand times, they must believe that they can stand up for one thousand and one times and strive for life. The glory.