Many mothers admit that nowadays boys are too lacking in masculinity and appear to be the only ones.
only those responsible for themselves can be responsible for the country.
in some families, getting up and going to school every morning is a "dogfight". For this reason, many young mothers ask: what do children do when they don't get up in the morning?
first, let the child understand that school is his own business. His father and mother have no obligation to arrange everything for him. Students should get up on time and go to school on time, so they must not be late. It is the responsibility of the students to get up early, get out of the house earlier, get out of the car, go to school and take the class on time. This responsibility is necessary for parents to understand them on the first day of school. You can give him a gift as soon as your child is fresh in school: a cute, crying little alarm clock, and tell him, "you should make friends with your little alarm clock later. Every morning when it calls you, you must get up and get tired again. Mom and dad no longer call you late for school. You are responsible for yourself. " After 35 days' persistence, the child's biological clock is adjusted. When the alarm clock rings, he will wake up himself.
truth be told, the more we do for our children, the more care we have, the less children will take care of themselves. Today, these highly dependent children are destined to become tomorrow's ineffective parents.
as a child's mother, I learned from experience that as a parent, the best gift to be given to a child should be "root" and "wing", the root of responsibility and the wings of independence. If these two things are absent, the result will cause trouble to the parents and even bring tragedy to the family.
how to sow the seeds of responsibility in the hearts of young children? Many mothers and fathers have accumulated many successful experiences. The most important point is: let the children decide for themselves.
another way to cultivate sense of responsibility: to give children the opportunity and position to participate in labor at home.
now, many young parents have arranged everything for their children. The housework doesn't allow their children to intervene at all. If the children have the heart to help them, the adults will say, "take your study well, the test scores are better than anything, and the work in the house doesn't work with you." Such parents are really confused. If the children do not work, they will not be concerned about the family. In the long run, they may become selfish and indifferent, like the "outsider" of the family. It would be too late for the parents to wake up and blame their children for not working.
according to a survey, children in Chinese cities are working on an average of less than 0 hours a day, 2 hours, the least of the world's children. "Familiar with the food and clothing," is familiar with the old saying, which is most evident in our children.
"land is produced, and things are produced." When you don't work, you can't do it. " This is the word of a farmer's father to educate his children. "No laborer can eat", we should let the children experience, if we train the children to "no labor," people will not be able to eat in the future.
let the child have a fixed job at home, such as washing up the bowl, sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, cleaning the glass, taking the milk, taking the newspaper and so on every day, several pieces to the children, and in the end, help them to understand the life and understand the parents.
parents should give recognition to the work done by their children, in order to appreciate the reward as a reward for their children. If money is used to reward children's labor, they will eventually cultivate their strong utilitarianism.