Re: Tsinghua elementary school president's heart to heart words: want to let the child succeed, these things must not do again.
the fourth stories I want to talk about are related to young teachers. There is a younger first grade teacher in our school. Their children have just gone to school and their parents are very cautious, and there are a lot of problems that arise. One of the requirements of
is to ask her to describe all the children's situations with their parents. Because the teacher can not make phone calls during the day, she can only communicate with her parents at night, and each time they fight, they will have to play for an hour or so. Roughly, if a class has 40 students, what is the workload of the teacher? She will have to call at least forty hours.
, so at a parent's meeting, the deputy head teacher of the class said, "this teacher is only 23 years old. Please parents think, what are you doing when you are 23 years old? What are you doing now, mom and dad? Can you give the class teacher some care and understanding?
isn't this the perplexity of education? Is education just a teacher's responsibility? Can parents pass all their responsibilities onto our teachers? I think these should arouse the reflection of all of us.
5. do not let children lose their ego because of love.
the last story I want to talk about may be a little extreme, but it did happen. The child does not come to school every morning because he wants to wake up naturally. What is the concept of natural awakening? The answer given by parents is between half past eight and half past nine. But the school time is scheduled for eight a.m.
helpless, the head teacher had to sit down with his parents and talk. Who has thought, the parents' attitude is also clear: before the morning recitation will not participate, it is the parents' right to let the child sleep, but if the child falls to class is the teacher's mistake. The conversation didn't work, and the situation lasted for a semester.
in the middle, the little friend had encountered such a thing. At our interesting sports meeting, the parents took the water bottle and let him drink water before going on stage. The child did not want to do so because he was afraid of losing his class performance. Parents repeatedly demanded that the child cry helplessly. Because he didn't know whether to run ahead or to drink water from his parents.
most parents hope that their children can become a Phoenix. They all know that they should cooperate with the school, or that they can educate their children together with the school. Of course, it is not absolutely correct to say cooperation. What should parents do in the end? Is it to shirk responsibility, indulge or blindly follow? I believe that all of these are worth thinking.
postscript
"as a headmaster, I meet tens of millions of parents every day -- father, mother, grandparents. I've been thinking, how can we do it better? "
at the end of the day, President Dou also made three suggestions to parents:
first, I especially hope that our parents do not cooperate with the school, but we work together to create or share the basic values of a person's growth.
second points, I especially ask that our parents and schools are not a relationship between Party A and Party A, nor is it a contradiction between the enemy and the enemy. Our relationship should be to accomplish some tasks together. Of course, the tasks described here are not all school tasks. What do you need to do? I think we can enrich the contents of our school together and bring the world into the classroom.
the last point, what I want to say is, I particularly appeal to my parents, that education is not a school side, we should have common sense of public interest. I deeply feel that our society needs not only what the school gives you, what the society gives you, but that you should feel and have a responsibility and mission to let us take on such friendship or feelings together.
"these three suggestions are not only my current thinking, but also our practice. We always feel that a primary school is a root project, a flower business. Dou Guimei said that we have to build, we need to sow, grow the best seeds, give her the sunlight, rain and dew and water that she can. As long as we believe each other, as long as we know each other, cooperate with each other, cooperate with each other and achieve each other, is there any bad future?