Re: Tsinghua elementary school president's heart to heart words: want to let the child succeed, these things must not do again.
the second stories I want to talk about are related to drama. In the subject teaching, Tsinghua has been trying to integrate a variety of advantage resources. One of the 1 X courses is an annual drama exhibition. It requires every class to participate in each class. Parents of each class can choose whether to participate according to their own wishes.
there was such a busy father that he came to school in a busy schedule. But halfway through the rehearsal, he left the field early. The reason for this is that his child acted like a motionless, even without a big stone.
afterwards, he sent a short message to the teacher in charge of the class. What is the content of the short message to make my child play the big stone? The teacher replied to him, "this is your child's choice." He suddenly relaxed a little when he heard the answer.
but still communicate with the head teacher: "although it is the choice of his own, but is my child only suitable for a big stone without a line of words? Can't you do anything else? Teacher, you can't give him more lines. He can't play the leading role. Can he play a supporting role? " In this process, teachers communicate with them again and again.
did not expect the children to hear the dialogue between their parents after they got home. On the second day of school, the child told the following words to the teacher, "son, why are you so hopeless? Why do you choose a big stone? Since the teacher said he chose voluntarily, why don't you choose something good? Your father was the monitor in the year! It's always the best in the class! If a boy chooses a big stone and carries a scissors and paper cut, what will he do in the future?
the teacher was in a very complicated mood after listening to it. Is it not a commendable thing to choose a quiet stone to observe others' performance silently and share the other people's brilliant performances? Can't paper-cut be a boy's hobby?
3. do not miss the child's growth
the third story originated from a poem. The poem is written in this way:
every time I hear your footsteps home from work,
my heart is like a piece of puzzle that is hard to complete.
dad, our family is a jigsaw puzzle.
I was very moved when I read this poem for the first time. I remembered that our students wrote a similar diary. Three (2) a student in this diary wrote in his diary: "my father is very busy at work, and often does not see a shadow for half a month. It was hard for him not to go to work, but he always came back home in the middle of the night before dragging his exhausted body. My mother comforted me that he kissed me on my face, but I didn't feel it.
until my birthday, he told me that I must have a birthday with me today. I was very happy after I heard, thinking that I could finally have a birthday with my father. I must talk to him about his own words and tell him how much I think about him. But it was not long before he texted his mother that they were going to have a seminar today, and that they might come back later. I waited and waited, but dad didn't come back. Then I was so sleepy that I fell asleep when I waited. In the first two days of the music class, the teacher led us to the theme song where daddy went.
singing, I've been thinking that although my father is not a star, I particularly want to apply to the TV station and let my dad take part in where dad goes. In this way, my father can live with me for a period of time without any interruption and work, so that I can enjoy the happy time with my father.
this is the third story I want to talk about. I hope we can all think about it. Parents nowadays are really not easy. What are they busy with? What is more important than the growth of a child?