Re: enters the child's mind, not by suspicion or surveillance, but by communication.
"No." The child cried more and more.
"tell your father and mother immediately and ask them for forgiveness." If you want to love them, don't let them worry about you again! Do you have money to buy a computer in your family? " In order to stop him from crying, I turned the topic.
"second-hand computer 3000 yuan a Taiwan, my family only saved more than 1000 yuan." The boy answered.
"slowly save enough money to buy one. It will be much safer to play at home." I sympathize with this computer - playing child.
"I'll save money. I won't let my parents worry about it. Do you believe me, my sister? " The boy looked at me with a longing eye.
"you are a good and honest child. Your intimate sister certainly believes in you. I think your mom and dad will believe you, too. Tell them the truth in a moment, OK? " I clapped his shoulder and encouraged him.
"good." The boy nodded his head. At this time, the hour hand has pointed to 6 o'clock, and his father and mother came in.
"you have a good son." I said to the boy's father.
the father bowed deeply to me and tears ran down. "If I didn't see you today, I really don't know how to end it. I don't know how to get along with my son again."
"nothing. In the future, no matter what problems in the family, parents, children sit down to talk about, and parents should listen to the children, and the children, also to be honest.
when father listened to my suggestion to buy a computer, he said he would buy it right away. I stopped him: "until now, we can only save enough money to buy, and education must have a process."
a family of three left happily.
afterwards, I thought, what would happen if I hadn't met with their family? The child refused to tell the truth, but his father had to ask for it.
so learning communication is really important for parents and children.