Ideal is the sunshine of the child's world
lost the sun, the heart of the world will be a dark.
as a "intimate sister", I have received several calls from teenagers who want to commit suicide. Their common feeling is "living without meaning".
a girl who attempted suicide attempted to say to me, "if you die early, you will die sooner or later. Early death, everything can be free, do you say? "
I said, "that's the reason. People always die. But people are not alive for the sake of death. Sima Qian, an ancient historian, said, "human beings are inherently dead, or heavier than Mount Tai, or lighter than the feather." Those who have done good deeds for the people are dead, dead, and remembered by the people. You are only 13 years old. It's a wonderful year. You are so smart and kind. You will have many opportunities to do many things in the future. What a pity it is for you to die now! "
the girl said, "you are right too. But I'm alive. My mother is too tired. My mother is so busy with her work that she worries about me all day and cares for me every day. Long pain is better than short pain. If I die, they will be sad for most days, but they will be relaxed all their lives. "
this girl rescued from death is so kind and so naive. What she does not understand is, what is the meaning of a person's life and where is the value of life?
reminds me of another 14 year old boy. He is tall and handsome. He is a good student in the school and a monitor in his class. In his life, he also encountered the same troubles as all his peers.
one day, he watched a TV program: a reporter interviewed a cattle herd in a remote village.
"what are you doing here?"
"let the cattle grow!"
"what about the cow when it grows up?"
"selling money, building a house."
"what does a house do?"
"marry a daughter-in-law, give birth to a baby."
"how about baby?"
"let him get the cow too!"