"Stand at the same height and look at the children." This is the specific performance of respect for children.
Hua Hua's father Hua Hua, is a soldier, as a soldier, have eaten a lot of pain, and left a lot of injuries. After marriage, he had a virtuous wife and a lovely daughter. Unexpectedly, her daughter suffered from congenital pancreatitis and could not eat any food with oil, so her body was very weak. Hua Hua deeply loves his daughter and knows that her daughter's disease is hard to cure. He is not pessimistic and disappointed. He does not indulge in connivance and obedience. He knows how to love children. He understands that a sick child needs more communication and more sincerity.
he talked to me about his idea: "to communicate with the children, to make friends with the children, to establish a completely equal friend like father (mother) relationship. Children should not be reprimanded and should stand at the same height with their daughters.
, then, he introduced what he did: "when my daughter was very young, I put her on the cupboard, I stood talking to her for an hour; when my daughter grew up a little, I put her on the tea table in front of the sofa. I sat on the sofa and talked to her; now the daughter is tall, and we are both sitting on the sofa. It's a habit to talk for an hour after lunch at noon.
Hua Hui also interposed beside him: "sometimes we both stand to speak, so I have to raise my head to see my father. I feel very tired. I would like to say something to my father: I want to see you like a great man. It's not fair. Father is very heart - minded, right away. "
I really envy both the parents.
"stand at the same height and look at the children." This is the specific performance of respect for children. Father and daughter, two people, sit up and talk every day. What an amazing thing it is to persist for 11 years in an hour!
365 days a year, one hour a day, 11 years is 4015 hours.
this hour is very important for a child's growth.
from one hour a day, the child understood mother and dad and understood the two books, "mother", "Dad", and voluntarily accepted the truth in the book.
this hour can be very valuable for busy parents, but the value it creates is not available for money.
from this hour, the young mom and dad understood their children and understood the book of "children", appreciating and cherishing their children from the heart.
two generations have formed the habit of equal conversation and mutual communication. Obstacles will be eliminated and the diaphragm can be broken.
if your child is still young, please squat down to talk with him. You will find a strange world in front of you.