Re: China Youth psychological growth base data show: 93% Internet addiction teenagers lack father love
in a very unremarkable path in Daxing District, where Chinese teenagers' psychological growth bases are located here. In 2006, the base was jointly awarded by nine ministries and commissions, including the Communist Youth League Central Committee, the Ministry of culture and the central civilization office. Up to now, about 9000 Internet addicts have been treated.
now, more than 30 students are being treated temporarily. Although Tao Ran insisted that Internet addiction be identified as mental illness, all children at the base were called "trainees". "Children actually learn to learn. Learn how to interact with people and bring them back from the virtual world to real life.
enter the base, all students are not allowed to use computers and cell phones. Under paramilitary management, we should conduct collective life every day, including queue training, expansion activities, comment and interaction, and singing military songs. The Beijing evening news reporter saw that the children wore uniform military uniform and sang songs with emotion, which seemed to be different from ordinary military training students.
Tao Ran said it was difficult for students to communicate with others before receiving treatment. "When these kids first came in, they even had to teach their words. They were immersed in the virtual world for a long time, so they could not speak in real life." Students have a lot of time each day, carry out group "review interaction", to the original on the computer screen, the keyboard out of "words", to the side of the partners to speak out.
the average age of the students in the base is 17 years, and the ratio of men to women is 9 to 1. "The children are actually very smart, many are high IQ, even the famous school students, Tsinghua, Peking University and other types of university students have, and mainly in science and engineering." Tao Ran says that science men may need to use a large number of computers in themselves, and compared with the liberal arts men, science men are relatively introverted and not good at expressing them. These are the potential reasons for the formation of Internet addiction.
93% lacks paternity
Internet addiction teenagers generally lack masculinity,
is different from the general Internet addiction center, and each student in China's adolescent psychological growth base requires a parent to be accompanied by a parent.
"parent company, in addition to the monitoring of the role of us, but also more important, but also learning - how to learn how to educate children and how to communicate with children." Tao Ran told the Beijing evening news reporter that in the early treatment, the rate of Internet addiction was up to 60% because of the absence of parents, and the rate of repetition was only 20% to 25% since the participation of parents.
Tao Ran found that family reasons were the main reason for Internet addiction, especially for fathers. The data show that 93% of Internet addicts lack paternity. "Why do we have a lot of boys at base? Because boys are more likely to identify with their fathers, and if they lack paternal love, they are more likely to have problems.
in the family of Internet addicts, there is a large number of "male and female". "Mommy takes a child alone, so it's easy to lose energy. Children can only play at home. Children appear rebellious in adolescence, lacking the authority, example and rules of their fathers. It's hard to teach children only by their mothers. Tao Ran believes that without his father's masculinity and dignity, the boy is prone to be soft and infirm, and weak.
and the father who is absent from family education at ordinary times, once found the problem of children, like to use violence to solve the problem, this will cause the adverse psychology of the child and intensify the contradiction. "Some children fight with their parents and indulge in games."