How do students break away from school early and parents work late at half past three? New audio-visual website
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half past three p.m., the child is out of school; at half past five p.m., the parents work. This embarrassing time lag has left parents struggling. They either leave early or quit their jobs, while many families choose to send the seniors early.
school is out. Who can come to pick me up? A simple question makes it difficult for all parties. How awkward is this half past three problem? Do other countries share the same problem? How can society, schools and families work together to solve problems? This edition is now decoding the problem of half past three how to break it, focusing on the annoyances that happen around us.
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my two children go to primary school, or different schools, really scratching their heads. Mr. Wang, a citizen of Tianjin, said that it was very simple to pick up a child before, but it was not true. It is too early for the children to leave school.
early school hours, parents late at work, this embarrassing time difference, so that the child has become the half past three problem of many families.
entangled
either leave early, or ask the silver hair family for help
a pair of twin sons of Ms. Zhu, a citizen of Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, grade four in primary school this year. She and her husband do the division: the husband goes to work far away and sends the child to school every morning; and when it comes to school in the afternoon, the unit is close to Ms. Zhu. Because I had to pick up the children ahead of time, I was the.Amp of the unit asking for leave and leaving early; lsquo old oil.Amp; rsquo. Ms. Chu said frankly, there are few leisure time that is entirely in their own time. When they grow up and go to middle school, they can relax. She can only comfort herself in that way.
if there really is no time to pick up the children, many parents will ask the older generation for help. On the afternoon of April 5th, shortly after school hours, the doorway of Beijing Hohl center primary school was gradually surrounded by parents. Many of them were silver haired people. Ouyang Yuanhua, 63, also stood at the school gate to pick up his first grade grandson. In my heart, I prefer the weather in Hunan's hometown, as well as what I eat and play. I love my daughter too much and come over to help them. In her opinion, school is still too early to finish school at three or four p.m., and the parents of their children usually do not work. This time point is even embarrassing for some elderly people, who are reluctant to play with our elderly children. Why? Everyone is on the top of the table. You have to pick up the children for a long time. Of course they will not play with you. Ouyang Yuanhua said helplessly.
resigning
feeling the most important of children, full time mother in
although it is a method to invite the old man to take the child, but with the progress of the society, the present older people also pay more and more attention to the freedom of personal space and time. Let's say something, the children go to school as if they are free; say nothing, the old sisters want to go to a scenic spot or dare not, fear not to come back, the child is not answered. According to Ouyang Yuanhua observation, many elderly people have gradually formed their own way of life, but if they want to pick up their children, nothing can be guaranteed. The old man can't help, what do the parents do?
in Tianjin city of Lu Nan Park, after school in the afternoon, a group of children play in the square, the parents or sitting or standing together, most of the elderly, chat and look at the children with the rest of the light. Ms. Fu is an exception. She is playing rope skipping at the end of her rope with her daughter. I don't need to ask for leave. Now I'll take her full-time.
Ms. Fu's daughter is a private primary school, which is later than the public school, but even so, the parents can not take the children. And the old man in the field home, for various reasons, unable to come to help.
this year just resigned, very entangled, so young has been doing nothing, the whole family rely on her husband to earn money alone, the pressure is also great. Although rich lady has a friend to resign, she has found a design work that can be done at home. I also want to find a part-time job, free time and take care of children, but this job is too difficult to find. Most enterprises still want centralized management. The rich lady said.
Ms. Fu is not an example. Ms. Chen, a Kunming citizen who has just entered primary school grade three this year, is also at home full-time. It is too early for the primary school to go to school, and no one is at ease. Ms. Chen has his own difficulties, and the needs of the children's overall education have been improved in the past few years. All kinds of tutoring classes and special classes can not be separated from their parents, and the full time moms like me are becoming more and more.
Xiao Dan and his husband are all from Jiangsu. After graduating from University, they settled down in Nanjing. Now that his daughter is in kindergarten, because both parents have objective conditions, they can not stay in Nanjing for a long time. I have been entangled, after all, I hope I can have my own career, but I still think that children are the most important. It is also worthwhile to cultivate children well.
hosting
quality and good and bad, price often
reporter survey found that in Nankai District, Ji'nan, Shandong Province, Ji'nan city and other parts of the school, also to promote the flexibility of the school system. But for most parts of the country, trusteeship by social training institutions has become a choice that many parents have no choice.
School in the afternoon, in Ji'nan, Shandong, every primary school door will be full of children's parents, many of them are old, but there are many young people who hold the XX training school brand of the XX rice table, and wait until the five or six, more than ten children get together, and take them to the corresponding training institutions.
Ms. Zheng, a parent of a student in the Central District of Ji'nan, said that almost every school has a number of small dining tables or training institutions, and the time difference between parents and children provides a broad market space for them, but many institutions are not qualified, food hygiene conditions, and teachers' Tutoring levels are also worrying. The price is often expensive. However, there are no other choices at home when no one helps to take care of them, and parents can not ask for leave for a long time.
worry about the quality of managed class is the heart disease of many parents.
it is not an ideal way to send the children to the trusteeship class, but this is also no choice. Ms. Wang, who lives in Binhai New Area of Tianjin, says that two of us work. The elderly live far away and the children can only be sent to the trusteeship class. The advantage of the training or hosting class is that the child is in time after school and some institutions provide dinner, but she is not so assured of the quality of the trusteeship and the qualifications of the teacher, and hopes that the school will be able to set up more formal trusteeship classes.
the trusteeship classes on the market in Kunming are not good enough. They only have a meal and homework, and the price is not low. Ms. Chen said. The problem of time difference between
is not only reflected in the time of school break, but the double employee families are having a headache as well. Summer vacation also has a special trusteeship class, which costs about 100 yuan a day, which is not a small sum for the working class in Ji'nan. Ms. Zheng said.
in addition, the time difference also let a lot of parents to the birth of two children, one of them, she said: Double family care for the children, sometimes really can not help, although they want to add a younger brother or sister to the child, but think of the situation now, have to give up. Ji'nan announced that the school would be flexible on the whole day after school. MS Zheng expects that children can be relieved and can save a lot of money in school.