Re: do primary school textbooks really frighten children? Student: make a big deal in a teacup
when parents go into sex education classroom, what kind of sparks will they wipe out?
in the first year of school, where do I come from? In the classroom of sexuality education, the teacher invited several parents representatives in the class.
a sex education course in the lower grade of the school, the teacher's teaching content is to help students understand how they form a fertilized egg through the combination of sperm and eggs to ten months of embryo development and eventually divorced from the mother. In addition to the contents of teachers and professors, the school also invited mothers to come into class to share their experiences and feelings of pregnancy in October.
listen to the mother's sharing, the children are very moved, this process close to the relationship between parents and children, students also understand the hard won life, which also makes Thanksgiving education, life education easier to be accepted by children. This process also gives parents a new understanding of sex education. In addition to sexual knowledge, sex education includes physical and psychological education, love and responsibility, and it is a comprehensive sex education.
schools are also working hard on their parents' knowledge training. The head of the school believes that some Chinese parents are limited by the influence of traditional culture and their own professionalism, which is easy to read according to their identity, and sex education requires a high degree of professionalism.
it is reported that the school hopes to invite experts from relevant fields to conduct general training for parents through the form of third party service.
parents' "individual teaching" for children's sex education is much more difficult than classroom group teaching. In class, we can speak big problems and face our own children sometimes. The atmosphere in the classroom is very important. When students study together, they can use a variety of ways, such as performance and interaction, and students can improve the consciousness of defensive aggression and other harmful behavior through the simulation of the scene, and this education is often difficult to carry out in the family. Li Ming, a teacher of
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the focus of a public school teacher in Chaoyang District responds to
Teaching of reproductive organs, sexual intercourse, and other words means the scale is too large? What kind of sex education do children of different ages need? In response to the focus of this round of teaching materials, the reporter interviewed a line of teaching teachers, listen to their views.
focus 1 is sex education for children?
when it comes to children's sex education, many adults will understand narrowly. But a good set of sex textbooks should include sex education and life education. The purpose of sex education is to teach children to understand their bodies and their physiological characteristics, so as to achieve the purpose of self protection. In addition, the content of life education, including interpersonal communication, social relations and health knowledge,
is introduced according to the group of children's sex education in North Normal University. The teaching material is based on the requirements of the guidelines for health education in primary and secondary schools and the international educational technology guidance program issued by the United Nations Educational and Cultural Organization in 2009. The six key concepts of "want" design family and friends, life and skills, sex and rights, physical development, sexual and healthy behavior and sexual and reproductive health six units. With the change of age, the contents of six units will be different each year, involving all aspects of children's sexual development.
Wu Ling said that the content of self-protection in teaching materials is not only the content of preventing sexual assault. In junior textbooks, ask children not to walk with strangers, parents, phone calls and home addresses, and learn to ask for help.
with the help of curriculum, many of the contents of behavior norms and personality training in children's lives can also be integrated into them, such as no swearing words. In the process of telling a child about the birth of a person, she will tell the child that the birth of the vast majority of people is through the mother's vagina, so she is grateful to the mother, and can not use insulting the mother's words to swear. Wu Ling said that with the help of these living conditions, her reproductive organ program has progressed smoothly.
focus 2. Is it too early to study menstruation in grade five?
in the five year of the textbook that sparked controversy, the knowledge of menstruation, semen and masturbation was introduced. In the online debate, some people think that it is too early to talk about this topic in grade five.
Wu Ling said he had recently been invited to a famous primary school in Zhongguancun, Haidian District, for a course on menstruation, and that it was a mixed class for men and women. Before class, I first said to the boys in this class: you are very lucky to have the opportunity to know the knowledge of women's physiology together with the female students, and there is no such opportunity for you to go back to the age of Wu primary school. As a boy, it is necessary for you to understand this knowledge. Now, you are the son of the mother; in the future, you will be a boyfriend of others; then, then, you will be the husband of your wife; and the future may be the father of the daughter. It is necessary for you to understand this knowledge, so that you will know how to care for women and understand women.
at the end of the class, the head teacher of that primary school passed on the feedback from the child to Wu Ling: some boys said that when the mother was in the future, she did not let his mother work; his mother was angry and wanted to understand her mother. In class, Wu Ling also asked the question: what if boys find girls menstrual dirty pants? A boy answered, he would quietly tell another girl, let her remind her. "In the process, children also learn to respect each other." Wu Ling said that this school has also changed the school teacher's understanding of sex education for children.
Li Ming believes that children and girls have appeared in puberty in grade four or grade five because of the problem of overnutrition. Early five tell them some problems that may be encountered in puberty in order to avoid excessive panic in the children, including the introduction of masturbation in the textbook, as well as a kind of universal education for students to understand that masturbation is a normal physical phenomenon, not a criminal act, a certain frequency within a certain frequency. Masturbation needs no prevention and cure, and no need to become a psychological burden. If there is masturbation, how to do it correctly, for example, in private space, wash hands and so on.