Re: a parent in Dongguan was transferred to the school after being accompanied by the teacher: the teacher could not destroy the image of his father in his heart.
children read parents and teachers are tired of
more and more parents feel that the children in primary school are children, but parents are overwhelmed. "A lot of homework to do with the parents and children, children's homework should be checked by parents, parents' signature, otherwise, the child will be criticized by the teacher, parents should be criticized."
"when we used to read books, our parents never looked at our homework. Didn't we grow up too well? Why do children nowadays read books and parents are so tired? Ms. Yang's daughter is also in primary school. She said, isn't the teacher doing this thing? Why is the responsibility to be pushed to the parents now?
but in the teacher's view, the child's education and learning is not only the school and the teacher. "How can the child develop the habit of learning if the parents do not cooperate and do not urge the children at home?" Is it not a waste of what children learn in school? Now that the competition pressure is so great, how can parents do it? "
teacher is really not easy. As long as children enter the school, there are competition within the exam grade, competition between classes and classes, competition between schools and schools; children's discipline is also competitive, the children of the class are good, the children of which class are mischievous; the children's comprehensive performance and competition... This represents the good or bad grades of teachers, and the pressure of teachers is not small.
it seems to be right, no problem. But the parents were "not afraid to utter a word" before the head teacher. The parents had to stand up and listen to the teacher's criticism with their children. "Is this really normal?" Mr. He said he could not understand.
[teacher]
most will pay attention to the way
a teacher said, "now the teachers are more aware of the way, so few teachers, so few of the parents, do not fall on the face, but not the parents think so seriously, though they are criticized, but children if they are criticized. Do you realize that it is not more education for your father or mother to be criticized for their own reasons?
the teacher also said: think about how normal education is how to cultivate a teacher, and know where the problem is. No one teaches the teacher how to teach the students a simple and effective knowledge, and how to motivate the students to study independently, but only take the traditional conservative "therapy", let the students have a high burden, and find the problem of children to criticize, All these are to promote the progress of the students.
a lot of teachers themselves are parents, children are also reading, and face the reality rather helpless, "we also expect to be conscientious teachers, do not blindly anxiety parents, respect students, protect the children." A teacher said that.
"understand teachers, love children, for learning, pain and happiness!" This is the voice of many teachers.
[expert]
parental prestige impaired children's psychological
Li Xinyu, director of the Department of psychology at the Zhejiang Normal University, and doctor of psychology, many teachers ignore the positive function of education. When the teacher criticizes the parents in the face of the children, it is more serious than criticizing the child. "The inherent position of the parents in the child's mind is the basis for the positive influence and education of the children. When the child's face criticizes the parents, the parents' prestige and status in the child's mind will be questioned and the child's heart is thrown down." The effect of the face. "
Li Xinyu said, in the process of education, we should not pay much attention to the negative aspects of children, but should find and cultivate their positive strength and quality. As teachers, it is easy to find children's shortcomings and problems, but ignore the positive function of education.