A parent in Dongguan is transferred to the school after being accompanied by the teacher: the teacher can not destroy the image of his father in his heart.
Wang Wan Li / Guangzhou daily
recently, Mr. Wang, who lives in the south city of Dongguan, was criticized by his son's head teacher to the school. It has been second times for less than a month to start school. Last time the parents' meeting was held, the headteacher and mathematics teacher criticized him in public.
this is not the experience of Mr. Wang. Mr. Ho's daughter once studied in a primary school in Guancheng. Once, his daughter forgot to bring his homework to school. The teacher in charge criticized the child at the door of the classroom. "Criticize me, but I can't criticize me in front of children." He said, before long, he transferred to his daughter.
"every father is very great in the heart of the child. It's a role model for the child. I can't let a man destroy the father's image in the child's heart, which is more important than anything." He said, this is why he has to transfer his daughter to school. His words, Mr. Wang also fully agree.
case a
one month to start the school, parents two degrees to school listening and training
Mr. Wang's son Xiaoming (pseudonym) clever and clever, compared with the students of the three grade of the same primary school, he has the "maturity" that is not in line with his age. This year when he was in his first year of primary school, he was very clear: he refused to do his homework.
a lot of what the teacher taught, so he did, so he didn't listen to it in class and talked to other students. It made the teacher annoyed and criticized him many times, and he still didn't change it. For this reason, Mr. Wang was called to the school many times and listened to the criticism of the head teacher face to face.
he remembered the first meeting of the parents, when the parents were waiting for the headmaster in the classroom. The head teacher came to him and criticized him. All the eyes of the parents looked at him at the time. It was easy for the teacher to criticize the class teacher, the math teacher came, and let him again embarrassed again.
less than a month after the start of this semester, Mr. Wang has been called to school by the head teacher for the two time. Because children do not write homework, but the exam results are always in the top ten; and because he claims to have heart disease, he will not run. The teacher asked Mr. Wang with anger, "what's wrong with Xiao Ming?"
Mr. Wang, who dared not dare to talk back to his teacher, did not dare to say a word of excuse. He said, "go home and criticize the children," he said, once because of the parents and teachers' argument, the teacher said publicly in the parent WeChat group. "In this case, I give more care to his little friends in the class."
case two
forget the homework father and daughter with the batch of
Dongguan Wanjiang ho is not the same pain? Last semester, near the end of the exam, the daughter of primary and secondary school was scared to sleep, because the teacher in charge was very strict and the children in the class were not good at the exam results, and they would be severely criticized.
Mr. He and his wife are busy, and sometimes the child's husband and wife are not checked, and the head teacher will call or criticize the parents in the parents' WeChat group. The teacher said, "parents do not care, 5 2=0." Mr. ho also did not dare to have any criticism. When he looked at his daughter's fear, he could not bear to criticize his daughter. When Mr.
Mr. He sent the child to the classroom to communicate with the class teacher. "As a teacher, you can criticize the child and criticize the parents, but please don't criticize me in the face of the child. Please don't let the child see her father's embarrassing appearance." He turned away and left a stunned headteacher.
Mr. ho runs a well-known catering company which manages hundreds of thousands of employees. "Dad is great in the eyes of children. Teachers can't destroy the image of dad in their children's mind, which is bad for children's growth." Mr. He said.