Re: parents union of mentally handicapped people: they want to help their children, but they are taught to love and tolerate.
2017, she received a surging news interview in the morning on the morning of admission. Before that, the reporter had visited her many times, and she said it was difficult to determine the time. "My condition is very heavy. It's very good to get (maybe) today. It may be out tomorrow."
son is her biggest heart knot. Every day she plans the details of her son's future life and every life. If you think about it, there is no answer.
the 57 year old mother recalls how she and her son got along with each other for 27 years.
she has confidence in the development of China in these years. In December 13th,
2006, the Convention on the rights of the disabled was approved by the sixty-first United Nations General Assembly, and China became one of the first countries to sign and ratified the Convention. In July 1st
2008, the law of the People's Republic of China on the protection of disabled persons was revised and formally implemented. In August,
2015, the "mental barrier Service Innovation Association" launched a network of Chinese employment counselors to promote professional services and promote the employment and independence of disabled people. In January 11th,
2017, the standing meeting of the State Council passed the education regulations for the disabled (Revised Draft), and proposed to "promote the integration of education to ensure that the disabled enter the ordinary kindergartens and schools to receive education".
in the movie "ocean paradise", the late cancer father made a set of turtles to make his son not alone in the future and told his son that he was going to become a tortoise for a few days. The son loved to swim in the aquarium, and the tortoise lived long. His father wanted his son to see the tortoise later. He thought he had seen his father.
Wang Xiao chose to go far away from his son. In the Spring Festival of 2017, she asked Chen to go to Suzhou to celebrate her new year. She stayed in Beijing for treatment. She hoped her son would get used to life without her. At the end of 3, Chen may work at the car 4S store. Wang Xiao even laughed, saying that this may be the benefit of illness, and finally let go of the child's independence.
she also talked about life and death with her son. His son did not have a deep understanding. He only knew that his grandparents died and Qingming had to go to the grave. Wang Xiao asked him more, "what about mother's death?" "I cry", "I buy flowers."
sometimes Wang Xiao told her son at the dinner table that his mother would not be there one day and would go to the sky to become a star and keep looking at you. Chen didn't feel sad and happy. The family next to dinner listened to tears.
Wang Xiao thanked Chen more, saying Chen was a gift from her, and she wouldn't be a parent organization without Chen, which was worth all her previous work.
teach us to become "more civilized" people
Li Hong sometimes wonder why parents give birth to disabled children, and these parents may be the elite of all walks of life. Now she knows slowly that maybe God has given them the mission to do more important things. In
2016, the association combined with Beijing Normal University, Beijing Union University and other scientific research institutions to carry out a survey report on the survey report on the status of teachers and parents' needs and the analysis of the education form of inclusive (integration) and the trend of policy and advocacy in seven places, such as Beijing and Guangzhou. The results of
report showed that 27% of the disabled parents who had been enrolled in the general school had the experience of being asked to drop out of school; the full-time special education resources teachers were severely deficient in allocation, taking Guangzhou as an example, the total number of students enrolled in a class of 1947, and 54 teachers and teachers with special special education support. The ratio is 1:36, which is much lower than that in other regions. For example, in Taiwan, China, the ratio is 1:7. Before the two sessions of
2017, the Symposium of the association, the Symposium of the association, invited the representatives of the people's Congress and the CPPCC members to participate in the discussion, and advocated the implementation of the "zero refusal" principle for the admission of disabled children, to build a support system for all inclusive education in the general school system, and to improve the professional competence related to all teachers' pre service and in service and inclusive education. In
2017, the CPPCC member, Wang Ming and the representative of the National People's Congress (NPC), who participated in the conference, put forward the proposal for the professional ability of promoting inclusive education and the construction of support system.
Li Hong feels that, although the disabled children lack a lot of life skills, the only one is the ability to love. God may have left such a group of people specially to teach us to be a "more civilized" person.
volunteer Liu Yang has participated in many events. He changed his original view that the disabled children did not need pitiful and sympathized, even needed help. They were helped by the volunteers themselves, because they learned to love others.
the report on the development of Chinese autistic children, published by Sun Menglin, director of the China Education Society's autism research center, shows that as of 2014, more than 10 million of the Chinese autistic patients were likely to be autistic. Autism is only one of the mental disorders. It also includes cerebral palsy, tangled syndrome and so on.
according to the statistics of the Federation, there are at least 50 parents and individual members in every parent organization in the country, with the largest number of 1000. From the regional distribution, Guangdong has the largest number, and there are more than 10. Followed by Liaoning, Beijing and Henan, there are over 3 parents of mental retardation parents.
for tens of millions of mental handicapped families, the number and size of the parents' organizations are at the moment, and as for most small and medium-sized cities and villages, such organizations are almost blank.
Mr Liang has a lot of "Hope": he wants the government to encourage parents to organize legal registration as a social organization, and to foster support for their development through the form of services, and to create an inclusive life and education environment for those who do not discriminate against mental handicap, and hope that enterprises should accept them equally and set up a package. There is a cultural atmosphere of love.
Wang Xiao's dream is that every county can have a parent organization, so that parents can help each other. Only when parents come out, can children have a future. She expects social changes to recognize disabilities, not to transform them, but to respect their inherent rights as human beings.
the biggest confusion of Lei Mingtao was that he had no friends of his peers, the reporter and his WeChat, he was very happy, and often gave a reporter's circle of praise. His WeChat was called "perseverance," and when he learned that his story was written in the article, he first gave a voice to the reporter and said, "write our unit." That's great! What a boastful of our boss and our supervisor! " On the telephone side, the reporter can imagine him looking at the screen, trying to open his mouth and speak loudly.
next, he shares a voice with a reporter: "when I'm off work, some of them say hello to me, walk slowly, see you, see you tomorrow!" "Some of our employees sometimes pat me on the shoulder and say," Tao Tao, do your best. Come on! "
for a long time, he added, "good luck to all good people!"