Qian Jiang evening news Wang Yi
originally, on the morning of 13, Wu Haiyan observed in the school district of Dongyuan primary school - the parents of the 90% entrance to the school were all hand in hand with the baby, a hand with an umbrella, and a heavy bag hung on his body. After the teaching building, a few children sit on the stool and chat with their legs on stilts. The front is father and mother, even the white grandparents of the hair, or squatting or kneeling, changing the shoes for the baby and seeing the children walk into the classroom.
that made her very difficult, so after thinking, she sent more than 600 parents in the school to send 3 messages, "our children have grown up, and their own things must be done by themselves!" "She said in a text message," starting tomorrow, the rain will not allow parents to send children to school on the tree garden campus. After the
3 message was sent out, Wu Haiyan received only two first-year parents' responses.
because of rain, parents sent their children to school on the morning of the 13 day were much more busy than usual. Parents hold their umbrellas, carry their schoolbags, lead the children, walk into the campus, before entering the classroom, many parents and grandparents, bend down, change shoes for their children, take off wet shoes and replace clean shoes. After observing for half an hour, Wu Haiyan made a decision to give the students a good lesson on this matter.
8 a.m., Wu Haiyan walked into the broadcasting room of the school and said to the school's children: "from now on, it will not allow parents to send students to school on rainy days. After
, Wu Haiyan wrote a more than 300 word message and sent it to the head teacher and the chairman of the home Committee. She also thought about it. She wrote 3 messages and sent them to the parents of more than 600 students in the school,
. "This week, the rain and rain model began to start, and the campus was observed for half an hour today, and many parents were carrying bags on their backs to help their children change shoes. Just now, the school broadcasts have feedback on what should not happen. Our children have grown up and have to do their own things.
starting from tomorrow, parents are requested to let their children carry their bags on their backs, hold umbrellas, carry shoes exchanged, and go upstairs after changing shoes on the first floor of the school. After school, change the shoes, line up the umbrella out of the school.
warm hint: umbrellas, please use a crooked hook to hang on the corridor railing. All rain gear is not allowed to be brought into the classroom; please make the children's schoolbags, often use dictionaries, extracurricular books and so on every night, and put them in the school closet.
at home, consciously cultivate children's ability to work independently. Please convey the message to all parents at home. Thank you.
the result was obviously surprised by Wu Haiyan. The 3 text messages were sent out to the sea. Only the reply from two first grade parents was only two short words: received. WeChat parents, who are usually very busy, do not have a bit of movement.
Wu Haiyan felt that he had done an unseen thing. She made a circle of friends with her feelings and text messages sent to her parents. "Today, she did a thing not to be welcomed by parents and teachers. After the WeChat and text messages, there was no silence, and it felt they felt 'trouble'."
this circle of friends was drowned by nearly a hundred comments at the moment, and the voice of support and praise was one-sided - "very normal request, children can do it." "We need a parent school to teach our parents first." "Support schools to cultivate children's independent consciousness and do their own things from childhood."
although text messages sent to parents can't be answered, Wu Haiyan decided to start up the floor inspection from today, especially for the child's umbrella and shoes change. "This is to better cultivate the children's self-care ability. It hurts the children to start with the long-term development, and the replacement is a kind of indulgence."
it's hard for a child to do it yourself. In an interview with
, Wu Haiyan told reporters that the reason she insisted on doing this was because Chinese family education had trained a lot of "giant babies", and many children lost their basic self-care ability, and even more fearfully, they were hard to do with gratitude. "The problem of children is actually the problem of family education, so I ask the children to go home and tell their parents to retell the content of the broadcast, hoping to reeducate their parents and grandparents."
Wu Haiyan feels that most parents "are not disgusted with too much school management, but are used to it, and this habit also affects children".
a reporter has found that many primary school principals and teachers are grateful for Wu Haiyan's feelings, but they still have great worries: such a request should be done for senior students, but for the lower grade, especially in the first grade, parents are sure to be more worried. In this regard, Wu Haiyan thought: "gentle education has been a lot, it is time to be tough, as long as the conscience is good."
more and more people attach importance to pre pregnancy education, but neglect the ability to nurture children's growth. Wu Haiyan said that details often help children grow up to adapt to this society. For example, children walk down, many parents in the face of children "accusation" of stone, the correct practice should be said to the child: stand up, the next walk should be careful. "Some people may think that I am making a mountain out of a molehill, but these phenomena are real."
many teachers sigh after Wu Haiyan's circle of friends: "when will our little princess and young master raise their paths?"